"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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good job for improving social skills

commodore

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hi all.

i am interested in finding a job that will actively improve my social skills. any good ideas and personal experiences?

i was thinking becoming a bartender
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Colin O'Brien

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Bartender for sure, you get a ton of money too. Another good one is working at a clothing shop selling men's and women's clothes, like Urban Outfitters or H&M or something local or whatever (not sure where you're from, just throwing names out there).
 

Miguel

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Hey, thats a genius idea commodore. Add building your social weapony with making money. Simple, smart, and it forces you to do it.
 
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