"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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good job for improving social skills

commodore

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hi all.

i am interested in finding a job that will actively improve my social skills. any good ideas and personal experiences?

i was thinking becoming a bartender
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Colin O'Brien

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Bartender for sure, you get a ton of money too. Another good one is working at a clothing shop selling men's and women's clothes, like Urban Outfitters or H&M or something local or whatever (not sure where you're from, just throwing names out there).
 

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Hey, thats a genius idea commodore. Add building your social weapony with making money. Simple, smart, and it forces you to do it.
 
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