"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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good info about sugars (lactose, fructoce, malto and reguar dex)

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You could have just posted one thread containing all of the links, you know

see "signal to noise ratio" for clarification
 

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player backwards guy, what are you talking about? He just posted a link to a thread about sugars. What other links should he put in one thread?

The other link he posted in another thread, is a completely different subject.
 

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well in case you hadn't noticed, the OP just made a significant number of threads where he simply mentions a topic in the subject line and then posts links to wannabebig.com articles

that's what i'm referencing in my original response to the OP. all of his posts could have just as easily been consolidated into one thread for posting, improving readability and the signal to noise ratio.
 

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not necessarily, if each of them had spawned a separate discussion.

i don't think you can fault his enthusiasm either, most of the linked articles are quite good, and i learned from several of them
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I agree with Throttle. Seperating these links into differnet threads leaves room for people to reply to that specific link. While his "signal:noise ratio" may be one that you don't feel is necessary, people reading these links, and responding to them may appreciate them. It prevents a lot of confusion.
 
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