"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Adam B

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This is my first post, but I've been readin this forum a little for a couple of days....

So, I was at the movies with this girl that I like a lot and towards the end of the date, I decided to kiss her. It was just a nice, gentle peck on the lips. Then after that I laughed, smiled and said "that's all you get tonight".

was that well played or kinda cheesy/dumb?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HandyAndy

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No I think thats pretty cool, but I think you should add something like

"Thats all youve earned tonight" or "Thats all your gettin tonight, unless you ___________" with a wink or smile

Or something along those lines, tease her with your kisses.
 

Darth_Qurashi

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lol, i thought it was funny. sure its cheesey, but she should give u a break, she should understand how nerve racking it is to come up with something witty after such a powerful connection between two souls.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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That was well played bro.
nice lidea for a line...i'm gonna have to pull that on my gf next time :D

what was her reaction?
 

Adam B

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Triple T said:
That was well played bro.
nice lidea for a line...i'm gonna have to pull that on my gf next time :D

what was her reaction?
She looked at me, smiled, laughed and gave that kind of "WTF did you just say?", shocked look, but in a good way, I think. A few days later she was telling me how awesome I was and how I'm different from other guys and ****. So, I believe it was good.
 

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Well played man,thats a priceless line. You took control of the situation, and showed her that you can lead and know what you are doing.
 
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