Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This is my first post, but I've been readin this forum a little for a couple of days....

So, I was at the movies with this girl that I like a lot and towards the end of the date, I decided to kiss her. It was just a nice, gentle peck on the lips. Then after that I laughed, smiled and said "that's all you get tonight".

was that well played or kinda cheesy/dumb?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No I think thats pretty cool, but I think you should add something like

"Thats all youve earned tonight" or "Thats all your gettin tonight, unless you ___________" with a wink or smile

Or something along those lines, tease her with your kisses.
 
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lol, i thought it was funny. sure its cheesey, but she should give u a break, she should understand how nerve racking it is to come up with something witty after such a powerful connection between two souls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That was well played bro.
nice lidea for a line...i'm gonna have to pull that on my gf next time :D

what was her reaction?
 
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Triple T said:
That was well played bro.
nice lidea for a line...i'm gonna have to pull that on my gf next time :D

what was her reaction?
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She looked at me, smiled, laughed and gave that kind of "WTF did you just say?", shocked look, but in a good way, I think. A few days later she was telling me how awesome I was and how I'm different from other guys and ****. So, I believe it was good.
 
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Well played man,thats a priceless line. You took control of the situation, and showed her that you can lead and know what you are doing.
 
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