"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good idea to kiss a girl you are not goin out with?

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Well this chick at work been giving me signs a lot, e.g. when im reaching for a fone she leans in and put her tits on my arms lol, and touchin me when she walks past etc etc.

Thing is, we don't really know each other very well, we know each other, but not very well. Now usually when we have a break we go to a supermarket nearby to buy some $hit(not literally:D ) to drink. I was thinkin, on the way back i should isolate her, take her to some dark spot, say some $hit and kiss her.

Another catch is, she has a BF...but the thing is, everytime she asks me if i have a gf, i don't answer her, instead i reverse the question, she ALWAYS says DW(dont worry)...so im guessing she doesn't want to scare me off or $hit like that..and the fact that she flirts with me means shes not happy about her current relationship im guessing?..oh and just last night shes msged me sayin "havin fun?"..now that is fukin random....because she doesnt know what im doing....and when i asked her the same question, she says shes dying of boredom.....i reckon kissing her shouldnt be a problem....what you guys think..
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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1. you bought what?
2. you gonna say what exactly?
3. she says dw = ?
4. go for it.
 

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i think you should go for it, you have the perfect situation. She's in a relationship so you don't have to be in one with her, and she likes you. Same thing at my work ironically, except she doesn't have a BF (unfortunately). I say just go for it, you only live once and if she's down to f* or kiss then do it. No regrets man
 

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I say don't screw with a girl with a boyfriend. Don't get involved at work.

But then again, if the babe is hot, I say don't blow an opportunity. Invite her to hang out and then go for it, that way you may get more than a kiss, and you can't get any 'sexual harassment' charges on you if she gets mad.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BUT, bear in mind, if she is happy and satisfied with her current relationship.....she wouldnt flirt..well some girls just likes to flirt, but this girl..she does it hardcore to me, and noone else...lol
 

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NeW2TheGame said:
BUT, bear in mind, if she is happy and satisfied with her current relationship.....she wouldnt flirt..well some girls just likes to flirt, but this girl..she does it hardcore to me, and noone else...lol
my idea: put it out in the open (listen you flirt like hell with me) and lay out the law (but i know you have a boyfriend so you either need to lose him or stop). personally, its more or less against my morals (moreso lately) to mess with a guys girl, even if they are going through a bad time, dont be the random **** that cuts shiit up.

anyways its your call
 

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There is a moral problem with this, but I don't have many morals. Therefor, it doesn't bother me so much. If I get on a girl who has a boyfriend, she is immediately crossed off the 'girlfriend material" list. Can't have a cheater. Keep this in mind.
 

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Dannowillbookem and skill_staz.....u guys raise a good point.....o wel, i'll think about it....because personally i don't really like to be the third person in a relationship.....hmmm....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well she has been giving you a lot of sings buddy. All you need to do is make the MOVE.. I would fvck her instead of kissing her, couse the way i see it, SHE IS A LITTLE NAUGHTY GIRL!!
 

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Go for it, I would if I were you.

If you get rejected, oh well, **** happens and move on.
 

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ah hell my balls were dead that day, but now im good. GO FOR IT screw her like a fucckin dog!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NeW2TheGame said:
Well this chick at work been giving me signs a lot, e.g. when im reaching for a fone she leans in and put her tits on my arms lol, and touchin me when she walks past etc etc.

Thing is, we don't really know each other very well, we know each other, but not very well. Now usually when we have a break we go to a supermarket nearby to buy some $hit(not literally:D ) to drink. I was thinkin, on the way back i should isolate her, take her to some dark spot, say some $hit and kiss her.

Another catch is, she has a BF...but the thing is, everytime she asks me if i have a gf, i don't answer her, instead i reverse the question, she ALWAYS says DW(dont worry)...so im guessing she doesn't want to scare me off or $hit like that..and the fact that she flirts with me means shes not happy about her current relationship im guessing?..oh and just last night shes msged me sayin "havin fun?"..now that is fukin random....because she doesnt know what im doing....and when i asked her the same question, she says shes dying of boredom.....i reckon kissing her shouldnt be a problem....what you guys think..

You are basically overanalyzing the situation..

In my humble opinion, this girl is a tease. Why dont you invite this girl to a party or ask her about a party or event where there's gonna be some guys there and if you see that she's pulling the same sh*t on them as she is on you. She's a tease...but dont get discouraged, it simply means you havent made yourself stand out from other guys....overall in my opinion though I wouldnt kiss her just yet, you should test out the waters through KINO and see how she reacts to this and if she doesnt resist then your next step would be to invite her over to your house too look at you "stamp collection"
But, then again she has a BF, you should be a little careful, just cuz she's texting you does not mean she's bored of her guy. I'd like to hear how this turns out.
 

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Yup, good point there too dimebag.

Will let ya know, got work this friday and saturday.
 

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Dimebag you're my hero, you were right, shes a tease.
But she really has a lot of problems in her life etc etc, so i guess i have to say that famous word...NEXT!
Wot ashamed, honestly she was pretty hot...guess i should go for girls my own age, lol.:crazy:
 
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