"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good idea to kiss a girl you are not goin out with?

NeW2TheGame

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Well this chick at work been giving me signs a lot, e.g. when im reaching for a fone she leans in and put her tits on my arms lol, and touchin me when she walks past etc etc.

Thing is, we don't really know each other very well, we know each other, but not very well. Now usually when we have a break we go to a supermarket nearby to buy some $hit(not literally:D ) to drink. I was thinkin, on the way back i should isolate her, take her to some dark spot, say some $hit and kiss her.

Another catch is, she has a BF...but the thing is, everytime she asks me if i have a gf, i don't answer her, instead i reverse the question, she ALWAYS says DW(dont worry)...so im guessing she doesn't want to scare me off or $hit like that..and the fact that she flirts with me means shes not happy about her current relationship im guessing?..oh and just last night shes msged me sayin "havin fun?"..now that is fukin random....because she doesnt know what im doing....and when i asked her the same question, she says shes dying of boredom.....i reckon kissing her shouldnt be a problem....what you guys think..
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1. you bought what?
2. you gonna say what exactly?
3. she says dw = ?
4. go for it.
 

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i think you should go for it, you have the perfect situation. She's in a relationship so you don't have to be in one with her, and she likes you. Same thing at my work ironically, except she doesn't have a BF (unfortunately). I say just go for it, you only live once and if she's down to f* or kiss then do it. No regrets man
 

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I say don't screw with a girl with a boyfriend. Don't get involved at work.

But then again, if the babe is hot, I say don't blow an opportunity. Invite her to hang out and then go for it, that way you may get more than a kiss, and you can't get any 'sexual harassment' charges on you if she gets mad.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BUT, bear in mind, if she is happy and satisfied with her current relationship.....she wouldnt flirt..well some girls just likes to flirt, but this girl..she does it hardcore to me, and noone else...lol
 

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NeW2TheGame said:
BUT, bear in mind, if she is happy and satisfied with her current relationship.....she wouldnt flirt..well some girls just likes to flirt, but this girl..she does it hardcore to me, and noone else...lol
my idea: put it out in the open (listen you flirt like hell with me) and lay out the law (but i know you have a boyfriend so you either need to lose him or stop). personally, its more or less against my morals (moreso lately) to mess with a guys girl, even if they are going through a bad time, dont be the random **** that cuts shiit up.

anyways its your call
 

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There is a moral problem with this, but I don't have many morals. Therefor, it doesn't bother me so much. If I get on a girl who has a boyfriend, she is immediately crossed off the 'girlfriend material" list. Can't have a cheater. Keep this in mind.
 

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Dannowillbookem and skill_staz.....u guys raise a good point.....o wel, i'll think about it....because personally i don't really like to be the third person in a relationship.....hmmm....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well she has been giving you a lot of sings buddy. All you need to do is make the MOVE.. I would fvck her instead of kissing her, couse the way i see it, SHE IS A LITTLE NAUGHTY GIRL!!
 

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Go for it, I would if I were you.

If you get rejected, oh well, **** happens and move on.
 

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ah hell my balls were dead that day, but now im good. GO FOR IT screw her like a fucckin dog!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NeW2TheGame said:
Well this chick at work been giving me signs a lot, e.g. when im reaching for a fone she leans in and put her tits on my arms lol, and touchin me when she walks past etc etc.

Thing is, we don't really know each other very well, we know each other, but not very well. Now usually when we have a break we go to a supermarket nearby to buy some $hit(not literally:D ) to drink. I was thinkin, on the way back i should isolate her, take her to some dark spot, say some $hit and kiss her.

Another catch is, she has a BF...but the thing is, everytime she asks me if i have a gf, i don't answer her, instead i reverse the question, she ALWAYS says DW(dont worry)...so im guessing she doesn't want to scare me off or $hit like that..and the fact that she flirts with me means shes not happy about her current relationship im guessing?..oh and just last night shes msged me sayin "havin fun?"..now that is fukin random....because she doesnt know what im doing....and when i asked her the same question, she says shes dying of boredom.....i reckon kissing her shouldnt be a problem....what you guys think..

You are basically overanalyzing the situation..

In my humble opinion, this girl is a tease. Why dont you invite this girl to a party or ask her about a party or event where there's gonna be some guys there and if you see that she's pulling the same sh*t on them as she is on you. She's a tease...but dont get discouraged, it simply means you havent made yourself stand out from other guys....overall in my opinion though I wouldnt kiss her just yet, you should test out the waters through KINO and see how she reacts to this and if she doesnt resist then your next step would be to invite her over to your house too look at you "stamp collection"
But, then again she has a BF, you should be a little careful, just cuz she's texting you does not mean she's bored of her guy. I'd like to hear how this turns out.
 

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Yup, good point there too dimebag.

Will let ya know, got work this friday and saturday.
 

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Dimebag you're my hero, you were right, shes a tease.
But she really has a lot of problems in her life etc etc, so i guess i have to say that famous word...NEXT!
Wot ashamed, honestly she was pretty hot...guess i should go for girls my own age, lol.:crazy:
 
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