"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good idea to kiss a girl you are not goin out with?

NeW2TheGame

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Well this chick at work been giving me signs a lot, e.g. when im reaching for a fone she leans in and put her tits on my arms lol, and touchin me when she walks past etc etc.

Thing is, we don't really know each other very well, we know each other, but not very well. Now usually when we have a break we go to a supermarket nearby to buy some $hit(not literally:D ) to drink. I was thinkin, on the way back i should isolate her, take her to some dark spot, say some $hit and kiss her.

Another catch is, she has a BF...but the thing is, everytime she asks me if i have a gf, i don't answer her, instead i reverse the question, she ALWAYS says DW(dont worry)...so im guessing she doesn't want to scare me off or $hit like that..and the fact that she flirts with me means shes not happy about her current relationship im guessing?..oh and just last night shes msged me sayin "havin fun?"..now that is fukin random....because she doesnt know what im doing....and when i asked her the same question, she says shes dying of boredom.....i reckon kissing her shouldnt be a problem....what you guys think..
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. you bought what?
2. you gonna say what exactly?
3. she says dw = ?
4. go for it.
 

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i think you should go for it, you have the perfect situation. She's in a relationship so you don't have to be in one with her, and she likes you. Same thing at my work ironically, except she doesn't have a BF (unfortunately). I say just go for it, you only live once and if she's down to f* or kiss then do it. No regrets man
 

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I say don't screw with a girl with a boyfriend. Don't get involved at work.

But then again, if the babe is hot, I say don't blow an opportunity. Invite her to hang out and then go for it, that way you may get more than a kiss, and you can't get any 'sexual harassment' charges on you if she gets mad.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BUT, bear in mind, if she is happy and satisfied with her current relationship.....she wouldnt flirt..well some girls just likes to flirt, but this girl..she does it hardcore to me, and noone else...lol
 

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NeW2TheGame said:
BUT, bear in mind, if she is happy and satisfied with her current relationship.....she wouldnt flirt..well some girls just likes to flirt, but this girl..she does it hardcore to me, and noone else...lol
my idea: put it out in the open (listen you flirt like hell with me) and lay out the law (but i know you have a boyfriend so you either need to lose him or stop). personally, its more or less against my morals (moreso lately) to mess with a guys girl, even if they are going through a bad time, dont be the random **** that cuts shiit up.

anyways its your call
 

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There is a moral problem with this, but I don't have many morals. Therefor, it doesn't bother me so much. If I get on a girl who has a boyfriend, she is immediately crossed off the 'girlfriend material" list. Can't have a cheater. Keep this in mind.
 

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Dannowillbookem and skill_staz.....u guys raise a good point.....o wel, i'll think about it....because personally i don't really like to be the third person in a relationship.....hmmm....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well she has been giving you a lot of sings buddy. All you need to do is make the MOVE.. I would fvck her instead of kissing her, couse the way i see it, SHE IS A LITTLE NAUGHTY GIRL!!
 

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Go for it, I would if I were you.

If you get rejected, oh well, **** happens and move on.
 

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ah hell my balls were dead that day, but now im good. GO FOR IT screw her like a fucckin dog!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NeW2TheGame said:
Well this chick at work been giving me signs a lot, e.g. when im reaching for a fone she leans in and put her tits on my arms lol, and touchin me when she walks past etc etc.

Thing is, we don't really know each other very well, we know each other, but not very well. Now usually when we have a break we go to a supermarket nearby to buy some $hit(not literally:D ) to drink. I was thinkin, on the way back i should isolate her, take her to some dark spot, say some $hit and kiss her.

Another catch is, she has a BF...but the thing is, everytime she asks me if i have a gf, i don't answer her, instead i reverse the question, she ALWAYS says DW(dont worry)...so im guessing she doesn't want to scare me off or $hit like that..and the fact that she flirts with me means shes not happy about her current relationship im guessing?..oh and just last night shes msged me sayin "havin fun?"..now that is fukin random....because she doesnt know what im doing....and when i asked her the same question, she says shes dying of boredom.....i reckon kissing her shouldnt be a problem....what you guys think..

You are basically overanalyzing the situation..

In my humble opinion, this girl is a tease. Why dont you invite this girl to a party or ask her about a party or event where there's gonna be some guys there and if you see that she's pulling the same sh*t on them as she is on you. She's a tease...but dont get discouraged, it simply means you havent made yourself stand out from other guys....overall in my opinion though I wouldnt kiss her just yet, you should test out the waters through KINO and see how she reacts to this and if she doesnt resist then your next step would be to invite her over to your house too look at you "stamp collection"
But, then again she has a BF, you should be a little careful, just cuz she's texting you does not mean she's bored of her guy. I'd like to hear how this turns out.
 

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Yup, good point there too dimebag.

Will let ya know, got work this friday and saturday.
 

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Dimebag you're my hero, you were right, shes a tease.
But she really has a lot of problems in her life etc etc, so i guess i have to say that famous word...NEXT!
Wot ashamed, honestly she was pretty hot...guess i should go for girls my own age, lol.:crazy:
 
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