Girl Comes to my work to get coffee says sorry I'm late, I ignore her the first time , she says sorry I'm late again , I replied you should be , she replies I need a good kick , I said come here I'll give you a kick , and she laughs , not sure I asked her too hang out last week she said she can't because of her boyfriend !!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Good game or bad game ?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Ignoring then following up with "you should be" seems kindergarten like you're butt hurt about the rejection.
"I need a good kick"
"You need something alright" or "We could work that out"
You want to be flirty not abusive ("Come here, I'll give you a kick") that doesnt make her think sex.
If she talks to you, you respond. Don't ask her out again but be playful and happy as you should be regardless of her actions.
"I need a good kick"
"You need something alright" or "We could work that out"
You want to be flirty not abusive ("Come here, I'll give you a kick") that doesnt make her think sex.
If she talks to you, you respond. Don't ask her out again but be playful and happy as you should be regardless of her actions.