Girl Comes to my work to get coffee says sorry I'm late, I ignore her the first time , she says sorry I'm late again , I replied you should be , she replies I need a good kick , I said come here I'll give you a kick , and she laughs , not sure I asked her too hang out last week she said she can't because of her boyfriend !!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Good game or bad game ?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
stevo
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Ignoring then following up with "you should be" seems kindergarten like you're butt hurt about the rejection.
"I need a good kick"
"You need something alright" or "We could work that out"
You want to be flirty not abusive ("Come here, I'll give you a kick") that doesnt make her think sex.
If she talks to you, you respond. Don't ask her out again but be playful and happy as you should be regardless of her actions.
"I need a good kick"
"You need something alright" or "We could work that out"
You want to be flirty not abusive ("Come here, I'll give you a kick") that doesnt make her think sex.
If she talks to you, you respond. Don't ask her out again but be playful and happy as you should be regardless of her actions.