Girl Comes to my work to get coffee says sorry I'm late, I ignore her the first time , she says sorry I'm late again , I replied you should be , she replies I need a good kick , I said come here I'll give you a kick , and she laughs , not sure I asked her too hang out last week she said she can't because of her boyfriend !!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Good game or bad game ?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Ignoring then following up with "you should be" seems kindergarten like you're butt hurt about the rejection.
"I need a good kick"
"You need something alright" or "We could work that out"
You want to be flirty not abusive ("Come here, I'll give you a kick") that doesnt make her think sex.
If she talks to you, you respond. Don't ask her out again but be playful and happy as you should be regardless of her actions.
"I need a good kick"
"You need something alright" or "We could work that out"
You want to be flirty not abusive ("Come here, I'll give you a kick") that doesnt make her think sex.
If she talks to you, you respond. Don't ask her out again but be playful and happy as you should be regardless of her actions.