"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good dramas?

War Against Betaism

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This weekend I optioned not to go out and party and wanted to stay home and watch some movies. I picked up Forrest Gump and The Curious Case of Benjamin Button. I loved both of them a have grown a huge appreciation for dramas now. Is there any movies like them? Like in the mold of the character narrating the story from child hood and on?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Once Upon A Time in America is a good one.
But Once Upon a Time in the West is the greatest movie ever.
Big Fish and O Brother, Where Art Thou? are great in that narrative vein.
 
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