"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good dating line to a HB 10

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I am going to ask a HB 10 out, but I am not that interested in her yet because I don`t no properly how her personality is. ( she is attracted to me )


So I am thinking about saying:

You are hot, but I don`t no if you are my type if I don`t get to no you a little better , so I am thinking about that we can go to take a coffe and talk for 10 min?


Do you have any alternative line / better line?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just tell her straight up. "Lets get some coffee together on this day." Simple and to the point. She can take it or leave it.

Personally, I don't care for a coffe date. Why not a walk in the park and throw a frisbee or something. Coffee dates a cheap and easy. But, what are you gonna do. Sit in a star bucks, drink a coffee and talk? Sounds boring for a first date.... But, that is just my opinion.
 
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Yes, you are right........ :)

Simple line is better and more natural.
 
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i was waiting for the:

"sorry my english is bad"

but anyway your line is pretty lame to be honest. it's kinda telling her you're forcing yourself to be alpha and that you will bore her with minutes of forced alpha phrases.

"i like to eat. do you like to eat? maybe we both can eat at the same time and maybe at the same table. i like to drink... maybe we can do that too."
 
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kingman said:
I am going to ask a HB 10 out, but I am not that interested in her yet because I don`t no properly how her personality is. ( she is attracted to me )
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If she is nice to you when you approach her and ask her out, then that right there should tell you plenty about her personality.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Michele said:
"i like to eat. do you like to eat? maybe we both can eat at the same time and maybe at the same table. i like to drink... maybe we can do that too."
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Haha I love it, I almost want to try it out just becuase it would be hilarious.

And I agree with what michele said. Your trying to make her feel like she needs to qualify herself to you which is good... but it does sound fake, she would see right through it.
 
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This is all you'll ever need:

"I'm going to go grab a bite to eat at __________________." "If you feel empty in your stomach and want to join me that'd be great. If not, I'll call one of my other options. Choice is yours. You have five minutes before I run out the door."

This gets her mind spinning and her guts twisted in a knot. It's the fact that she is not your salvation which makes you alluring.
 
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You are hot, but I don`t no if you are my type if I don`t get to no you a little better , so I am thinking about that we can go to take a coffe and talk for 10 min?
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horrible :down:

I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Just tell her straight up. "Lets get some coffee together on this day." Simple and to the point. She can take it or leave it.
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good
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yea, you people are right. My line was a little weird.

I will stick to the simple line to I.A.F.Y.B.
"Lets get some coffee together on this day"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yea Im with Michele still on this one.




Michele said:
"i like to eat. do you like to eat? maybe we both can eat at the same time and maybe at the same table. i like to drink... maybe we can do that too."
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Thats the line you need to use.
 
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oh god. do you really need a line? why don't you just walk over and ask her what it is you want.

you want to meet her over coffee right?

u don't need some stupid line. if she digs you, she will break her neck trying to get at you.
 
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kingman said:
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So I am thinking about saying:

You are hot, but I don`t no if you are my type if I don`t get to no you a little better , so I am thinking about that we can go to take a coffe and talk for 10 min?
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I would never make that kind of a statement- telling her to her face that you don't know if she's you're type? This will come off as very weird.

How about: "Hey, how's it going." *response* "Hey listen, how would you like to come get some coffee with me right around the corner."

And take it from there. Remember to smile.
 
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