"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Good dating line to a HB 10

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I am going to ask a HB 10 out, but I am not that interested in her yet because I don`t no properly how her personality is. ( she is attracted to me )


So I am thinking about saying:

You are hot, but I don`t no if you are my type if I don`t get to no you a little better , so I am thinking about that we can go to take a coffe and talk for 10 min?


Do you have any alternative line / better line?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just tell her straight up. "Lets get some coffee together on this day." Simple and to the point. She can take it or leave it.

Personally, I don't care for a coffe date. Why not a walk in the park and throw a frisbee or something. Coffee dates a cheap and easy. But, what are you gonna do. Sit in a star bucks, drink a coffee and talk? Sounds boring for a first date.... But, that is just my opinion.
 
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Yes, you are right........ :)

Simple line is better and more natural.
 
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i was waiting for the:

"sorry my english is bad"

but anyway your line is pretty lame to be honest. it's kinda telling her you're forcing yourself to be alpha and that you will bore her with minutes of forced alpha phrases.

"i like to eat. do you like to eat? maybe we both can eat at the same time and maybe at the same table. i like to drink... maybe we can do that too."
 
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kingman said:
I am going to ask a HB 10 out, but I am not that interested in her yet because I don`t no properly how her personality is. ( she is attracted to me )
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If she is nice to you when you approach her and ask her out, then that right there should tell you plenty about her personality.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Michele said:
"i like to eat. do you like to eat? maybe we both can eat at the same time and maybe at the same table. i like to drink... maybe we can do that too."
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Haha I love it, I almost want to try it out just becuase it would be hilarious.

And I agree with what michele said. Your trying to make her feel like she needs to qualify herself to you which is good... but it does sound fake, she would see right through it.
 
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This is all you'll ever need:

"I'm going to go grab a bite to eat at __________________." "If you feel empty in your stomach and want to join me that'd be great. If not, I'll call one of my other options. Choice is yours. You have five minutes before I run out the door."

This gets her mind spinning and her guts twisted in a knot. It's the fact that she is not your salvation which makes you alluring.
 
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You are hot, but I don`t no if you are my type if I don`t get to no you a little better , so I am thinking about that we can go to take a coffe and talk for 10 min?
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horrible :down:

I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Just tell her straight up. "Lets get some coffee together on this day." Simple and to the point. She can take it or leave it.
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good
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yea, you people are right. My line was a little weird.

I will stick to the simple line to I.A.F.Y.B.
"Lets get some coffee together on this day"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yea Im with Michele still on this one.




Michele said:
"i like to eat. do you like to eat? maybe we both can eat at the same time and maybe at the same table. i like to drink... maybe we can do that too."
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Thats the line you need to use.
 
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oh god. do you really need a line? why don't you just walk over and ask her what it is you want.

you want to meet her over coffee right?

u don't need some stupid line. if she digs you, she will break her neck trying to get at you.
 
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kingman said:
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So I am thinking about saying:

You are hot, but I don`t no if you are my type if I don`t get to no you a little better , so I am thinking about that we can go to take a coffe and talk for 10 min?
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I would never make that kind of a statement- telling her to her face that you don't know if she's you're type? This will come off as very weird.

How about: "Hey, how's it going." *response* "Hey listen, how would you like to come get some coffee with me right around the corner."

And take it from there. Remember to smile.
 
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