“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good date Idea for 18 year old?

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I'm racking my brain trying to figure out somewhere to take an 18 year old girl on date. I have attraction with her but I feel it slipping away if I don't escalate. I live in a very small town and have limited options. I'm open to any suggestions.
 

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you use the advantage your 35 year old life should have; don't take her out bring her home. i don't know how you feel about letting her drink or what not but break out some wine shew ill eat that **** up. 18 year olds like 35 years olds because they are good looking and mature. don't make the mistake of trying to party like an 18 year old if she wanted to party like an 18 year old she woudl date an 18 year old. she wants yout ot reat her like a woman. even though she really isn't one yet.
 

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backbreaker said:
you use the advantage your 35 year old life should have; don't take her out bring her home. i don't know how you feel about letting her drink or what not but break out some wine shew ill eat that **** up. 18 year olds like 35 years olds because they are good looking and mature. don't make the mistake of trying to party like an 18 year old if she wanted to party like an 18 year old she woudl date an 18 year old. she wants yout ot reat her like a woman. even though she really isn't one yet.
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lol as long as the candy store sold whip cream and ice i woudl not give 2 ****s. 18 is 18 lol
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Wine and movie nights are probably your best bet since you can't really get into a bar with her yet.

And what's up with all of these guys trying to force feed girls alcohol so their inhibitions will be lower? Use your game to the point where alcohol isn't needed. Sure, it helps, but it's a dependent variable if you make it one.
 

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Pair A Dice said:
And what's up with all of these guys trying to force feed girls alcohol so their inhibitions will be lower? Use your game to the point where alcohol isn't needed.
Agreed. It doesn't matter if she's 18 or 38, take her out on a fun action date, escalate kino, and she'll stick around for another date. Repeat the formula, and you will get laid.
 

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Pair A Dice said:
Wine and movie nights are probably your best bet since you can't really get into a bar with her yet.

And what's up with all of these guys trying to force feed girls alcohol so their inhibitions will be lower? Use your game to the point where alcohol isn't needed. Sure, it helps, but it's a dependent variable if you make it one.
Why handicap yourself? You have tools, use them.
 

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my whole thing is playing up your uniqueness of the situtation.

in a dating/plate spinning eveyrone has good cards and bad cards. the trick is to max the good cards and min the bad cards

in this case, bringing her home elimnates having to plan something.. you don't know enough about how she looks at you and you are shooting from the hip right now. get her alone, talk to her a bit and 2nd/3rd datres will be much easier to coorndate. is she a party girl? does she wanted to be treatedl ike alittle lady? is she just a booty call? you don't know

secondly, it subconciously lets her know you bring something different to the table than every toher guy hitting on her. tell her "hey i will come pick you up" pick iher up let her see you have a half ass decent car. let her see you have a house without 5 room mates in it or parents starring at you everywhere you go. cook something to show you can cook **** besides chicken nuggets. she'll llike this. like with my wife, when i first brought her around me i went out of my way to cook southern food beucse she's not even american lol i know she has never had **** like candid yams and sweet potato pie (At least good sweet potato pie lol) with (real) fried chicken with the burnt ass grease stains on the chicken and **** and red kool aid. to be a man i can throw down.. my signature dish is a creamy chicken afrleado that i put bacon and shrimp in as well.. i even make the sauce from scratch i don't use store bought ****... **** will bring you to your knees and i cook it when i know we have special company coming over.. but **** i'm sure guys have wined and idned her and tried to bring out the expensive Italian food before. not many guys can cook some real black eyed peas and hot water corn bread. not only did she love it (she loves SP pie now), it set me apart from everyone else.

part of the game is impression but the other part is making sure they see you as different.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I agree I don't know what she thinks yet. She wanted coffee originally but I'm overly-caffeinated from the workout supps. I'll be meeting this woman for drinks shortly. Use the tricks you guys mention but this one unlike the OP's is maybe 27 or 28. I find it funny that females have come on here before saying it's horrendous to drink with them on a first date when the females I've met have offered to meet with drinks first!
 

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smoke a joint, pound a few natty ice, fvck her and drop her off.

wait for her to show up on your door step for a few more rounds till she loses interest.

that about does it i think.
 

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I probaly shouldnt get her drunk because I have to eventually take her home to her parents. That might not go over to good.
 

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timmylivingalie said:
I probaly shouldnt get her drunk because I have to eventually take her home to her parents. That might not go over to good.
haha, she likely won't know when she's had enough and potentially barf in your car.

Yep, the weed is a better idea.

SH
 

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Chicks around her age dig hookah. I suggest you take her to a hookah place or get a hookah yourself if you don't have one. I don't agree with people suggesting you feed her alcohol.
 

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@brad - There's a fine difference between a glass or two of wine and pouring martinis down her throat.

@scrouds - You're not handicapping yourself by not using alcohol. If you need alcohol to seal a date, you've already failed.
 

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Pair A Dice said:
@brad - There's a fine difference between a glass or two of wine and pouring martinis down her throat.

@scrouds - You're not handicapping yourself by not using alcohol. If you need alcohol to seal a date, you've already failed.
Don't let your ego get in the way of getting laid. Use what you can, when you can to achieve your goals. You sir, live in a box. You're defined by that box. Your self limiting beliefs keep you in that box.

I urge all men to take a long hard look at their current belief structure, keep what serves them, toss the rest. Here's your red pill for the day.
 

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18 ??? Really mate, hell I don't care how hot any teen girl is there is no way I'm going to waste time with them, they are never ever worth the hassle.

You get more bang for your buck with a girl that's around 22-26, plus they have by now (one should hope) learned how to actually fu(k.

The drama that comes with dating teens is not worth it mate. Trust me when I was 24 I went out with a 18 year old girl, was the worst night of my life the sex was boring and the sh!t hit the fan when her folks found out she spent the night at my place.
 

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typical said:
18 ??? Really mate, hell I don't care how hot any teen girl is there is no way I'm going to waste time with them, they are never ever worth the hassle.

You get more bang for your buck with a girl that's around 22-26, plus they have by now (one should hope) learned how to actually fu(k.

The drama that comes with dating teens is not worth it mate. Trust me when I was 24 I went out with a 18 year old girl, was the worst night of my life the sex was boring and the sh!t hit the fan when her folks found out she spent the night at my place.
I'm just really attracted to younger girls. I wasted my teens and twenties chasing after older girls.
 

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Golden!

st_99 said:
smoke a joint, pound a few natty ice, fvck her and drop her off.

wait for her to show up on your door step for a few more rounds till she loses interest.

that about does it i think.

99 dude knows what's up!!!
 
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