"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do most of you guys talk to girls about on dates, at school, or anywhere?

I've tried talking to girls about the things I'm interested in (video games, cars, rock music, and sci-fi movies), but usually it doesn't work.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thats because alot of girls might not be so interested in those things as you are. My strong point with women is the conversation. Always let them talk. Girls like talking. So let her talk and then just attach some witty remarks or maybe if you have personal experience with what she is saying, weave that in. Always be light and a little funny. If convo is running out, make a humorous observation about something/someone around you. Ask her how she feels about a particular issue that is in the news lately. Talk about favorite TV shows or movies. Tell her a joke. Get her to tell you a joke.
 
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Pick up Teen Magazines, Cosmo, Magazine, or a very celebrity scandalous magazine. Pick one of them and you'll have things to talk about for a week....

Talking about celebs, Relationship Reality shows.... relationship kinda stuff
 
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All the advise mentioned above are great. But when you start a converstation with a girl -- you want more out of it then a mere conversation, right? You want -- at least -- a friendship as an outcome?

You need to have friends who like you for you. I am sure girls have many common interests are you have and visa versa. You might even introduce an interestic topic she never considered or... visa vera.

My point is don't build relationships (yes.. friendships is another form of a relationship) on lies.

I.E. I am sure you do not like talking about politics nor your fellow classmates. But, sometimes, interesting events do occur. Which may strike your fancy -- so mention it.

You get my point.

Now to answer your question directly, based on the responses above -- you should also talk about shopping, hair, nails, clothing.... I think you get the idea....

GIRLS ARE NOT SO DIFFERENT THEN GUYS!!

YES, girls even masturbate. Trust me, i know (and no... i am not a girl).

Girls play video games, even. I went to party last year in the fall... we had some video games (we all played that, girls included), we all drank ourselves drunk -- to the point of lacking self control. Most of us, at least. A few were smart enough to not get too drunk to have function of certain organs. :)

We are all human. Just some have penis, others have vaginas... and some have both.:D
 
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