"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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flying10

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What do most of you guys talk to girls about on dates, at school, or anywhere?

I've tried talking to girls about the things I'm interested in (video games, cars, rock music, and sci-fi movies), but usually it doesn't work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thats because alot of girls might not be so interested in those things as you are. My strong point with women is the conversation. Always let them talk. Girls like talking. So let her talk and then just attach some witty remarks or maybe if you have personal experience with what she is saying, weave that in. Always be light and a little funny. If convo is running out, make a humorous observation about something/someone around you. Ask her how she feels about a particular issue that is in the news lately. Talk about favorite TV shows or movies. Tell her a joke. Get her to tell you a joke.
 

NotaGoatLover

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Pick up Teen Magazines, Cosmo, Magazine, or a very celebrity scandalous magazine. Pick one of them and you'll have things to talk about for a week....

Talking about celebs, Relationship Reality shows.... relationship kinda stuff
 

Fitch

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All the advise mentioned above are great. But when you start a converstation with a girl -- you want more out of it then a mere conversation, right? You want -- at least -- a friendship as an outcome?

You need to have friends who like you for you. I am sure girls have many common interests are you have and visa versa. You might even introduce an interestic topic she never considered or... visa vera.

My point is don't build relationships (yes.. friendships is another form of a relationship) on lies.

I.E. I am sure you do not like talking about politics nor your fellow classmates. But, sometimes, interesting events do occur. Which may strike your fancy -- so mention it.

You get my point.

Now to answer your question directly, based on the responses above -- you should also talk about shopping, hair, nails, clothing.... I think you get the idea....

GIRLS ARE NOT SO DIFFERENT THEN GUYS!!

YES, girls even masturbate. Trust me, i know (and no... i am not a girl).

Girls play video games, even. I went to party last year in the fall... we had some video games (we all played that, girls included), we all drank ourselves drunk -- to the point of lacking self control. Most of us, at least. A few were smart enough to not get too drunk to have function of certain organs. :)

We are all human. Just some have penis, others have vaginas... and some have both.:D
 
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