"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good Conversation Starter: "Is that your real name"

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I haven't logged in for a long time but I thought I'd stop by to tell you guys about this little gem I've been using lately with good success, and see if any of you have ever used it...

This works best when you are talking to a girl at a checkout counter that has a nametag. You look down at her nametag and say "Jennifer huh?" She'll usually look at it also and say "yeah" then you say "Is that your real name?"

Instant conversation starter, you will usually get a giggle and a reply and judging by the vibe she's giving you, you can then take the conversation wherever you want... :cool:

Maybe you experts already know about this... Maybe it's old and played out and maybe I'm about to get flamed but it sure has been working for me :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What's your real name? Hmm..interesting. I can't see how this would work, but I may give it a shot.

I personally like "are those real?" while looking intently at her breasts.
 
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I don't know why it works but I guess it's just so unexpected and different from what all the other 1000 guys she sees every day. Who knows... :)
 
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PUA: Jennifer huh?
HB: Yeh
PUA: Is that your real name?
HB: Yeh

Then what?

Bare in mind that there are most probably people behind you in the queue.

I can see this working in department stores where you may be at a desk, paying with not many people around and you can slowly escalate.
 
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Well because it's such an unexpected question she will usually giggle and won't just say "yeh"... if she's cool she'll say something like "no I made it up" and you can say "well you have to do what you have to do to keep all those walmart shoppers from hitting on you"

Or she might say "yeah why?" and you can say "well I just thought maybe you made up a fake name to keep all these walmart shoppers from hitting on you"

If she just says "yeh" and you're not getting a vibe that she's into you then move on...

BTW I've only done this when there wasn't anyone in line behind me...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bigdavis said:
Well because it's such an unexpected question she will usually giggle and won't just say "yeh"... if she's cool she'll say something like "no I made it up" and you can say "well you have to do what you have to do to keep all those walmart shoppers from hitting on you"

Or she might say "yeah why?" and you can say "well I just thought maybe you made up a fake name to keep all these walmart shoppers from hitting on you"

If she just says "yeh" and you're not getting a vibe that she's into you then move on...

BTW I've only done this when there wasn't anyone in line behind me...
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If she's really cool she'll also add, "Here's your sign." :crackup:


I wouldn't do the whole "to keep people from hitting on you" thing, however.
…Kind of cliché in my book but whatever works for ya.

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Basically this is one of those openers that you use to gauge a girl.
I would try this on cute cashiers especially if I have made eye contact with her while shopping.
I would also probably crack a joke about her name or something fun and lighthearted, but that’s just me.
 
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You're right. That's what I use it for. Just to get something going and to guage interest. If you're naturally charming and funny but have trouble getting something started this is just one idea...

The "hitting on" thing was just one example. You could also make a joke about stalkers or witness relocation... or just give her a neg hit about her name

Neg hits are absolutely the best thing ever invented. The hotter she is the more you gotta bust on her! :up:
 
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