"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good Conversation Starter: "Is that your real name"

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I haven't logged in for a long time but I thought I'd stop by to tell you guys about this little gem I've been using lately with good success, and see if any of you have ever used it...

This works best when you are talking to a girl at a checkout counter that has a nametag. You look down at her nametag and say "Jennifer huh?" She'll usually look at it also and say "yeah" then you say "Is that your real name?"

Instant conversation starter, you will usually get a giggle and a reply and judging by the vibe she's giving you, you can then take the conversation wherever you want... :cool:

Maybe you experts already know about this... Maybe it's old and played out and maybe I'm about to get flamed but it sure has been working for me :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's your real name? Hmm..interesting. I can't see how this would work, but I may give it a shot.

I personally like "are those real?" while looking intently at her breasts.
 
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I don't know why it works but I guess it's just so unexpected and different from what all the other 1000 guys she sees every day. Who knows... :)
 
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PUA: Jennifer huh?
HB: Yeh
PUA: Is that your real name?
HB: Yeh

Then what?

Bare in mind that there are most probably people behind you in the queue.

I can see this working in department stores where you may be at a desk, paying with not many people around and you can slowly escalate.
 
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Well because it's such an unexpected question she will usually giggle and won't just say "yeh"... if she's cool she'll say something like "no I made it up" and you can say "well you have to do what you have to do to keep all those walmart shoppers from hitting on you"

Or she might say "yeah why?" and you can say "well I just thought maybe you made up a fake name to keep all these walmart shoppers from hitting on you"

If she just says "yeh" and you're not getting a vibe that she's into you then move on...

BTW I've only done this when there wasn't anyone in line behind me...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bigdavis said:
Well because it's such an unexpected question she will usually giggle and won't just say "yeh"... if she's cool she'll say something like "no I made it up" and you can say "well you have to do what you have to do to keep all those walmart shoppers from hitting on you"

Or she might say "yeah why?" and you can say "well I just thought maybe you made up a fake name to keep all these walmart shoppers from hitting on you"

If she just says "yeh" and you're not getting a vibe that she's into you then move on...

BTW I've only done this when there wasn't anyone in line behind me...
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If she's really cool she'll also add, "Here's your sign." :crackup:


I wouldn't do the whole "to keep people from hitting on you" thing, however.
…Kind of cliché in my book but whatever works for ya.

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Basically this is one of those openers that you use to gauge a girl.
I would try this on cute cashiers especially if I have made eye contact with her while shopping.
I would also probably crack a joke about her name or something fun and lighthearted, but that’s just me.
 
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You're right. That's what I use it for. Just to get something going and to guage interest. If you're naturally charming and funny but have trouble getting something started this is just one idea...

The "hitting on" thing was just one example. You could also make a joke about stalkers or witness relocation... or just give her a neg hit about her name

Neg hits are absolutely the best thing ever invented. The hotter she is the more you gotta bust on her! :up:
 
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