"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do all the "recommended" shoes look like bowling shoes? http://www.kinowear.com/blog/category/shoes/

That's just a little too flashy for me, I'm sorry. And expensive. Sometimes I just wanta wear my NB tennis shoes because they're so comfortable and if I get in a fight I'll be able to balance and kick someone's a5s a little better.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Poonani Maker said:
Why do all the "recommended" shoes look like bowling shoes? http://www.kinowear.com/blog/category/shoes/

That's just a little too flashy for me, I'm sorry. And expensive. Sometimes I just wanta wear my NB tennis shoes because they're so comfortable and if I get in a fight I'll be able to balance and kick someone's a5s a little better.
LOL! You'd never get in to a high end night club with New Balances of anykind...unless of course you are famous or ungodly rich...Then again the fact that you mentiond "expensive" as a reason not to have 70 dollar shoes, pretty much disqualifies you from the high end club scene anyway. Four of the shoes you linked in there were decent and you can ride with those but again, the casual sneaker trend is on the rise. Again the key is for them NOT to look too much like tennis shoes and more towards club wear.
 

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I would generally stay away from tennis shoes. Unless your outfit is completely coordinated with them (and the club actually lets you in since theres a dress code usually), they'll take your look way down if you've got some nice stuff on. I wear either a black pair of oxford style shoes by kenneth cole (black with white leather, square toe) or a pair of doc maartens (brown with white leather, round toe). Shoes are definitly something that you should make an investment in.

Either look at oxford style dress shoes, or loafers. Square toe is more in style now, and i personally think it looks better. (Dont forget to match your belt with the color of your shoes!)
 

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i wear white AF1s with a dark green tick, they rock
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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