"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why do all the "recommended" shoes look like bowling shoes? http://www.kinowear.com/blog/category/shoes/

That's just a little too flashy for me, I'm sorry. And expensive. Sometimes I just wanta wear my NB tennis shoes because they're so comfortable and if I get in a fight I'll be able to balance and kick someone's a5s a little better.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Poonani Maker said:
Why do all the "recommended" shoes look like bowling shoes? http://www.kinowear.com/blog/category/shoes/

That's just a little too flashy for me, I'm sorry. And expensive. Sometimes I just wanta wear my NB tennis shoes because they're so comfortable and if I get in a fight I'll be able to balance and kick someone's a5s a little better.
LOL! You'd never get in to a high end night club with New Balances of anykind...unless of course you are famous or ungodly rich...Then again the fact that you mentiond "expensive" as a reason not to have 70 dollar shoes, pretty much disqualifies you from the high end club scene anyway. Four of the shoes you linked in there were decent and you can ride with those but again, the casual sneaker trend is on the rise. Again the key is for them NOT to look too much like tennis shoes and more towards club wear.
 

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I would generally stay away from tennis shoes. Unless your outfit is completely coordinated with them (and the club actually lets you in since theres a dress code usually), they'll take your look way down if you've got some nice stuff on. I wear either a black pair of oxford style shoes by kenneth cole (black with white leather, square toe) or a pair of doc maartens (brown with white leather, round toe). Shoes are definitly something that you should make an investment in.

Either look at oxford style dress shoes, or loafers. Square toe is more in style now, and i personally think it looks better. (Dont forget to match your belt with the color of your shoes!)
 

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i wear white AF1s with a dark green tick, they rock
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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