"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Good Books on Being a Man

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What's a good book on being a man? Like topics like leading, taking risks, your role, ect.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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There're some great books:

"The seven habits of highly effective people" by Stephen Covey;

"Absent fathers, lost sons" by Guy Corneau (recommended in David de angelo's seminars);

"Influence Science and Practice" by Robert B. Cialdini;

"The 48 laws of power" by Robert Greene. (not really sure if it makes you a "man", but an interesting read, though)

I follow most of david's tips (I apply my own ideas too). In his seminars he said that most of the things that make you successful with women, are the same things that make you successful in business.
 
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Originally posted by Good Vibes
Thanks I wish David D. would type up a book list.
These are books in which David often refers in seminars and recommends.


"Influence: The Psychology of Pesuasion" by Robert Cialdini
"Sperm wars" by Robin Baker
"the selfish gene" by Richard Dawkins
"The Origins of Virtue : Human Instincts and the Evolution of Cooperation"
by Matt Ridley
"Thinking About Thinking With Nlp"
by Joseph C. Yeager
"Half Empty, Half Full: Understanding the Psychological Roots of Optimism" (title page only)
by Susan C. Vaughan
"A Theory of Everything : An Integral Vision for Business, Politics, Science and Spirituality" by Ken Wilber
"Mind-lines: Lines For Changing Minds"
by L. Michael Hall, Bobby G Bodenhamer
"Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill
"How to Argue & Win Every Time : At "Home, At Work, In Court, Everywhere, Everyday" by Gerry Spence
"Silent Power" by Stuart Wilde
"The Psychology of Achievement: "Develop the Top Achiever's Mindset" [Abridged] by Brian Tracy
"What to Say When You Talk to Your Self" by Shad Helmstetter
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't if this book has been published in other countries but in new zealand and australia try

"How to be a man" by john birmingham and some other guy i can't remember the name of
 

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
the DYD MASTERY & DEEP INNER GAME DVD/CD series
are must haves when wanting to learn more about men's studies.
His best series are "Sexual communication" and "Deep inner game". His "Deep inner game" is a KILLER! It's not exclusively directed to women, it's more of a general program. His guest is a psychologist who is the main lecturer in the program.
 
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