Good_Vibes
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What's a good book on being a man? Like topics like leading, taking risks, your role, ect.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Good Books on Being a Man
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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There're some great books:
"The seven habits of highly effective people" by Stephen Covey;
"Absent fathers, lost sons" by Guy Corneau (recommended in David de angelo's seminars);
"Influence Science and Practice" by Robert B. Cialdini;
"The 48 laws of power" by Robert Greene. (not really sure if it makes you a "man", but an interesting read, though)
I follow most of david's tips (I apply my own ideas too). In his seminars he said that most of the things that make you successful with women, are the same things that make you successful in business.
"The seven habits of highly effective people" by Stephen Covey;
"Absent fathers, lost sons" by Guy Corneau (recommended in David de angelo's seminars);
"Influence Science and Practice" by Robert B. Cialdini;
"The 48 laws of power" by Robert Greene. (not really sure if it makes you a "man", but an interesting read, though)
I follow most of david's tips (I apply my own ideas too). In his seminars he said that most of the things that make you successful with women, are the same things that make you successful in business.
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DonJuanMonk
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Thanks I wish David D. would type up a book list.
These are books in which David often refers in seminars and recommends.Originally posted by Good Vibes
Thanks I wish David D. would type up a book list.
"Influence: The Psychology of Pesuasion" by Robert Cialdini
"Sperm wars" by Robin Baker
"the selfish gene" by Richard Dawkins
"The Origins of Virtue : Human Instincts and the Evolution of Cooperation"
by Matt Ridley
"Thinking About Thinking With Nlp"
by Joseph C. Yeager
"Half Empty, Half Full: Understanding the Psychological Roots of Optimism" (title page only)
by Susan C. Vaughan
"A Theory of Everything : An Integral Vision for Business, Politics, Science and Spirituality" by Ken Wilber
"Mind-lines: Lines For Changing Minds"
by L. Michael Hall, Bobby G Bodenhamer
"Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill
"How to Argue & Win Every Time : At "Home, At Work, In Court, Everywhere, Everyday" by Gerry Spence
"Silent Power" by Stuart Wilde
"The Psychology of Achievement: "Develop the Top Achiever's Mindset" [Abridged] by Brian Tracy
"What to Say When You Talk to Your Self" by Shad Helmstetter
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
organizedconfusion
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the DYD MASTERY & DEEP INNER GAME DVD/CD series
are must haves when wanting to learn more about men's studies.
are must haves when wanting to learn more about men's studies.
SeldomSeen
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RE:
Cosigned!!
Also The 48 Laws of Power
Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
"The Way of the Superior Man"
Cosigned!!
Also The 48 Laws of Power
sparky1981
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I don't if this book has been published in other countries but in new zealand and australia try
"How to be a man" by john birmingham and some other guy i can't remember the name of
"How to be a man" by john birmingham and some other guy i can't remember the name of
Blue Phoenix
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His best series are "Sexual communication" and "Deep inner game". His "Deep inner game" is a KILLER! It's not exclusively directed to women, it's more of a general program. His guest is a psychologist who is the main lecturer in the program.Originally posted by organizedconfusion
the DYD MASTERY & DEEP INNER GAME DVD/CD series
are must haves when wanting to learn more about men's studies.