"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good biographies to read

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I absolutely love reading biographies. There's just something satisfying about reading a person's (or people's) struggles through life to get where they want to be. I've read a few, but there are two that are definately worth mentioning....

Motley Crue - The Dirt
Although these guys are AFCs (especially Tommy Lee) This is one fantastic read! The amount of drugs and women these guys did was absolutely crazy (well, maybe not the women ;) )

Marc Bolan
He was the lead singer of the band T. Rex. Although I'm not aware of a book written about him, there is a fantastic biography here. The guy was a true Don Juan all the way, never losing sight of what he wanted throughout all the problems he encountered on the way up to the top.

Anyone have some other good suggestions for biographies to read?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Warren Buffett - the Making of an American Capitalist

I'll admit, most guys, especially the younger ones here won't find this read any bit fascinating, but there is a tremendous wealth of knowledge to learn from this guy. I read it three years ago and it's still my favorite biography.
 

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Ben Franklin
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bill Romanowskis books is actually really good and inspiring.
 

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Two really good ones that inspire:

The Rise of Theodore Roosevelt
Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass

Wiseguy, which is the book that Goodfellas was based on, is a great read.
 

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Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass
:rockon:

I was going to suggest that, but I doubt that most guys here would have respect for it.
 

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Richard Branson - its called 'loosing my virginty' so you know its got to be good :p
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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