"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good biographies to read

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I absolutely love reading biographies. There's just something satisfying about reading a person's (or people's) struggles through life to get where they want to be. I've read a few, but there are two that are definately worth mentioning....

Motley Crue - The Dirt
Although these guys are AFCs (especially Tommy Lee) This is one fantastic read! The amount of drugs and women these guys did was absolutely crazy (well, maybe not the women ;) )

Marc Bolan
He was the lead singer of the band T. Rex. Although I'm not aware of a book written about him, there is a fantastic biography here. The guy was a true Don Juan all the way, never losing sight of what he wanted throughout all the problems he encountered on the way up to the top.

Anyone have some other good suggestions for biographies to read?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Warren Buffett - the Making of an American Capitalist

I'll admit, most guys, especially the younger ones here won't find this read any bit fascinating, but there is a tremendous wealth of knowledge to learn from this guy. I read it three years ago and it's still my favorite biography.
 

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Ben Franklin
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bill Romanowskis books is actually really good and inspiring.
 

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Two really good ones that inspire:

The Rise of Theodore Roosevelt
Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass

Wiseguy, which is the book that Goodfellas was based on, is a great read.
 

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Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass
:rockon:

I was going to suggest that, but I doubt that most guys here would have respect for it.
 

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Richard Branson - its called 'loosing my virginty' so you know its got to be good :p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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