"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good Approach lines......

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what are some good approach lines other than the one i keep saying.......
"wheres good to go round here"lol
.......... for when its just you an a mate out and a group of girls


i've found that 1 or 2 will keep talking, but then their mates will try drag them away.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Have good intuition with women first. Now do you have friends? If so, how do you approach them after not seeing them for a while? Whats up, Sup, Whats good, Hey, Hi, Hello??? What do you do? Ok, now goto woman and be yourself with your routine approach (should be easiest)...

Understand if you lose interest after saying whats up and seeing her response that you can walk away... Her voice tone and facial expression will either loosen you up (shes open) to talk or tense you more because it didnt work (she rejected you big time punk)... But still just relax with it, if she responds but not to your requirements then walk off. There aren't any such things as female friends for guys so your evidently hitting on her, your next line should cut more to the chase... Whats your name? Then, whats your number? Last line, Alright, my name is brett... Remember where you met her at so you can remind her on first call...
 

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lghost said:
Have good intuition with women first. Now do you have friends? If so, how do you approach them after not seeing them for a while? Whats up, Sup, Whats good, Hey, Hi, Hello??? What do you do? Ok, now goto woman and be yourself with your routine approach (should be easiest)...

Understand if you lose interest after saying whats up and seeing her response that you can walk away... Her voice tone and facial expression will either loosen you up (shes open) to talk or tense you more because it didnt work (she rejected you big time punk)... But still just relax with it, if she responds but not to your requirements then walk off. There aren't any such things as female friends for guys so your evidently hitting on her, your next line should cut more to the chase... Whats your name? Then, whats your number? Last line, Alright, my name is brett... Remember where you met her at so you can remind her on first call...
I'd modify it a bit...THINK FROM HER PLACE!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yeah i know but thats what most guys do, try to please. dont get me wrong, it works and can get you a chick or sex but i dont like to think like a girl, especially if you cant teach a girl to think like a man... It is also more successful and attractive to a woman... okay, all women... every woman
 

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The best approach is always commenting about the situation with something funny and a genuine smile. Once the girls are smiling / laughing you keep shooting the funny stuff and giving good body language & eye contact. Having fun and laughing is what girls want. You do that and they'll not even notice you picked them up. It will be natural and fun for them AND for you!
 
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