"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Good Approach lines......

Fingerling

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what are some good approach lines other than the one i keep saying.......
"wheres good to go round here"lol
.......... for when its just you an a mate out and a group of girls


i've found that 1 or 2 will keep talking, but then their mates will try drag them away.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Have good intuition with women first. Now do you have friends? If so, how do you approach them after not seeing them for a while? Whats up, Sup, Whats good, Hey, Hi, Hello??? What do you do? Ok, now goto woman and be yourself with your routine approach (should be easiest)...

Understand if you lose interest after saying whats up and seeing her response that you can walk away... Her voice tone and facial expression will either loosen you up (shes open) to talk or tense you more because it didnt work (she rejected you big time punk)... But still just relax with it, if she responds but not to your requirements then walk off. There aren't any such things as female friends for guys so your evidently hitting on her, your next line should cut more to the chase... Whats your name? Then, whats your number? Last line, Alright, my name is brett... Remember where you met her at so you can remind her on first call...
 

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lghost said:
Have good intuition with women first. Now do you have friends? If so, how do you approach them after not seeing them for a while? Whats up, Sup, Whats good, Hey, Hi, Hello??? What do you do? Ok, now goto woman and be yourself with your routine approach (should be easiest)...

Understand if you lose interest after saying whats up and seeing her response that you can walk away... Her voice tone and facial expression will either loosen you up (shes open) to talk or tense you more because it didnt work (she rejected you big time punk)... But still just relax with it, if she responds but not to your requirements then walk off. There aren't any such things as female friends for guys so your evidently hitting on her, your next line should cut more to the chase... Whats your name? Then, whats your number? Last line, Alright, my name is brett... Remember where you met her at so you can remind her on first call...
I'd modify it a bit...THINK FROM HER PLACE!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lghost

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yeah i know but thats what most guys do, try to please. dont get me wrong, it works and can get you a chick or sex but i dont like to think like a girl, especially if you cant teach a girl to think like a man... It is also more successful and attractive to a woman... okay, all women... every woman
 

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The best approach is always commenting about the situation with something funny and a genuine smile. Once the girls are smiling / laughing you keep shooting the funny stuff and giving good body language & eye contact. Having fun and laughing is what girls want. You do that and they'll not even notice you picked them up. It will be natural and fun for them AND for you!
 
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