"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Good and Bad

B

BringUrGreenHat

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2004
Messages
34
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
East Coast, USA
Well my friend and I know this girl from our school, Linz. Well, we were both really interested in her and we started a competition to see who could get down those pants first. Now, I got Linz all over me, and she wants to have sex wit me. But, I don't think I'm quite ready for it yet. I can mac with the best of em'. But, I don't wanna go that far yet. I know she wont have a problem if I say no. But, I know my friend is gona ride me if I tell him I didn't have sex with her, after outmac'ing him lol.... help? (PS: I enjoy very much messing around with this girl, but sex just not yet lol)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

T

TonyTheTigerOI

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 11, 2003
Messages
656
Reaction score
0
Age
41
Location
Buffalo, NY
Wow... ladies and gentleman - the not me not now poster child!

Hahaha, if you've got the balls to make a bet on getting in a girls pants, and you have the option... but back down... theres nothing I can say that will make everything alright in that wacked out head of yours. Dont make bets you dont want to win.
 
D

Da Game

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 3, 2003
Messages
348
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
WA State
So, let me get this straight. There's a girl who wants to sleep with you. If you do, your friend will have to give you money.


....



....
















































....

So, uh, explain again why you won't get with her? You don't want to have sex yet? Believe me, it's not that big of a deal. Your first time will most likely suck, so you're better off getting it out of the way with someone you don't care about impressing. If you don't do it, you'll always be wondering... I have turned down poon before, and ALWAYS regretted it later. When this kind of no-strings-attached opportunity comes along, you should jump on it like a middle-aged brit on a Thai hooker.

So, as I see it, your options are either:

1) Get laid and take money from your friend.

2) Don't get laid, lose the bet, and have your sexuality called into question by everyone you know for the next 10 years.

The choice is yours.
 
B

BringUrGreenHat

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2004
Messages
34
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
East Coast, USA
I guess... Oh well, just gonna do it and get my money. Off to the store to get some trojans... Peace
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

B

Bombshell

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2004
Messages
105
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
Indiana
If thats what you YOURSELF wants to do then cool go for it. But I dont think you other guys should be encouraging him to do something he said he is not sure he wants to be doing. Isn't part of becoming a DJ peer pressures that you dont want to be involved in? You guys should help him figure out what he wants to do and encourage that, not act like he is dumb because he is passing up easy sex.

So B.U.G.H. if you dont think your ready to have sex or at least to have sex with this chick then dont.
 
V

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Originally posted by BringUrGreenHat
I guess... Oh well, just gonna do it and get my money. Off to the store to get some trojans... Peace
Click to expand...
YEAH! HELL YA!!!! YOUR MY FVCKING HERO!

I know i shouldn't encourage him but thats american pie style sh*t. I respect your morals of not wanting to have sex, but obviously your ready if you willing to bet money on it. Your just having a conflict on interest (religion?) that is making you uneasy. Your head is telling you to do it to her proper, while your brain is telling you to follow your morals and wait. But this seems like a once in a lifetime opportunity, and i know i couldn't wait.

So you have the option of growing hair on your palms, or having sex and getting money... hmmm...

I know what I'd do, but i'm not you. I don't believe the same things as you soooo.

Sorry this was pretty useless, your just such a pimp. :cool:
 
S

Smooth as Anything

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 21, 2002
Messages
1,230
Reaction score
0
No, he didn't go and have sex with her. Even he said he did, he's lying.

I know how people work, the kids still a virgin.
 
B

BringUrGreenHat

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2004
Messages
34
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
East Coast, USA
First things first donkey, your write I am still a virgin, and i decided I intend to keep it that way until prom with this girl. Second, f you to think you know anything about me, and I never said I had sex with her... I said I was going to get some condoms, so please think before you speak.
 
W

werdmaster

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 26, 2003
Messages
108
Reaction score
0
Yo What the hell man?

Why wud force urself to do something u dont want to. If your not ready for sex, don't have it and lose the money man. You can always win a bet, but you can only lose your virginity once.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

V

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Originally posted by BringUrGreenHat
First things first donkey, your write I am still a virgin, and i decided I intend to keep it that way until prom with this girl. Second, f you to think you know anything about me, and I never said I had sex with her... I said I was going to get some condoms, so please think before you speak.
Click to expand...
I still think your a pimp :D
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top