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Good Advice: the Bottom Line

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hey, alot of guys post on this site asking for help with girls and most of it is the same thing, such as a girl won't respond to texts and is flaky yet at all the same time appears responsive and interested in person. well here's the answer to anymore of these posts. the bottom line is this: shes not interested. so stop thinking about this one dumb cvnt and find someone else,
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Yoko Kurama

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Your outlook determines you reality. If you truly believe she is not interested in you, she won't be. If you believe, it is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
 
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to Yoko Kurama: if she doesn't answer ur texts and is flaky, why waste ur time? so she may be interested, but this way u save urself the mind games shes probably playing
 

Yoko Kurama

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She can't manipulate if your in control.

To be in control, you must first control your emotions. (Anger, hostility, sadness, negativity, depression, over-zealous, and attachment.)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Yoko Kurama

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That what "mind games" are a method of controlling somebody, it is a "game".
 

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You could also say "always assume attraction" that way you don't miss any oppurtunities. However rather than what you suggested or assuming attraction you should just make a move so you see where you stand. Anything else is just a guess.
 
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