"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good Advice: the Bottom Line

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hey, alot of guys post on this site asking for help with girls and most of it is the same thing, such as a girl won't respond to texts and is flaky yet at all the same time appears responsive and interested in person. well here's the answer to anymore of these posts. the bottom line is this: shes not interested. so stop thinking about this one dumb cvnt and find someone else,
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Your outlook determines you reality. If you truly believe she is not interested in you, she won't be. If you believe, it is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
 
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to Yoko Kurama: if she doesn't answer ur texts and is flaky, why waste ur time? so she may be interested, but this way u save urself the mind games shes probably playing
 
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She can't manipulate if your in control.

To be in control, you must first control your emotions. (Anger, hostility, sadness, negativity, depression, over-zealous, and attachment.)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That what "mind games" are a method of controlling somebody, it is a "game".
 
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You could also say "always assume attraction" that way you don't miss any oppurtunities. However rather than what you suggested or assuming attraction you should just make a move so you see where you stand. Anything else is just a guess.
 
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