"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good Advice: the Bottom Line

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hey, alot of guys post on this site asking for help with girls and most of it is the same thing, such as a girl won't respond to texts and is flaky yet at all the same time appears responsive and interested in person. well here's the answer to anymore of these posts. the bottom line is this: shes not interested. so stop thinking about this one dumb cvnt and find someone else,
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yoko Kurama

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Your outlook determines you reality. If you truly believe she is not interested in you, she won't be. If you believe, it is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
 
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to Yoko Kurama: if she doesn't answer ur texts and is flaky, why waste ur time? so she may be interested, but this way u save urself the mind games shes probably playing
 

Yoko Kurama

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She can't manipulate if your in control.

To be in control, you must first control your emotions. (Anger, hostility, sadness, negativity, depression, over-zealous, and attachment.)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yoko Kurama

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That what "mind games" are a method of controlling somebody, it is a "game".
 

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You could also say "always assume attraction" that way you don't miss any oppurtunities. However rather than what you suggested or assuming attraction you should just make a move so you see where you stand. Anything else is just a guess.
 
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