"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gonna see her in art class...

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I've signed up for some art classes and guess what...

Word has reached me that SHE is gonna be my classmate... :eek:

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=54055

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52891

The girl who broke my heart... she's gonna be my classmate.

Knowing her, she will approach me and make "peace"... and will propose to become "friends" again.

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So here's the options. If you were in my situation, what would you do?

A) Reject her offer of "friends". I originally wanted her to be my GF but she refused. A Don Juan doesn't take shlt from women! Being a "friend" is like being a doormat again and being an AFC again.

B) It would be wise to keep her as a "friend". She is still an open door to an array of possibilities. There is still a friend of a friend of a friend... who knows what will happen?

C) Option A + try to DJ other chicks in that class...

D) Option B + try to DJ other chicks in that class...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Being friend is not like being doormat!

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except - not try to DJ, do!

If she still wants to be your friend - great! Let her be! Put her in your friend zone and keep her there forever. You've got millions of other girls to meet and perhaps a dosen in your class - meet them, talk to them, dj them. Every one of them, except for her.

Why? For yourself. By keeping her as a friend, you'll have someone to talk to honestly, you'll also have a great wingman and you'll be able to get a second opinion on many things. A true friends is a priceless gift.
And DJ other girls you should always do that! Go out there, talk to them, get to know them and set up dates with them.
 
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hey i think the friendship with her would be a disaster, you should keep your cool and just be cold towards her, just basic hi, bye, how are you bull****. just chat up other hotties that will be in your class. and play along , see how she responds and then you can make wise decisions from there... thats just my opinion on it.
 
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