"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gonna see her in art class...

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neobrood

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I've signed up for some art classes and guess what...

Word has reached me that SHE is gonna be my classmate... :eek:

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=54055

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52891

The girl who broke my heart... she's gonna be my classmate.

Knowing her, she will approach me and make "peace"... and will propose to become "friends" again.

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So here's the options. If you were in my situation, what would you do?

A) Reject her offer of "friends". I originally wanted her to be my GF but she refused. A Don Juan doesn't take shlt from women! Being a "friend" is like being a doormat again and being an AFC again.

B) It would be wise to keep her as a "friend". She is still an open door to an array of possibilities. There is still a friend of a friend of a friend... who knows what will happen?

C) Option A + try to DJ other chicks in that class...

D) Option B + try to DJ other chicks in that class...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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carbani

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Being friend is not like being doormat!

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except - not try to DJ, do!

If she still wants to be your friend - great! Let her be! Put her in your friend zone and keep her there forever. You've got millions of other girls to meet and perhaps a dosen in your class - meet them, talk to them, dj them. Every one of them, except for her.

Why? For yourself. By keeping her as a friend, you'll have someone to talk to honestly, you'll also have a great wingman and you'll be able to get a second opinion on many things. A true friends is a priceless gift.
And DJ other girls you should always do that! Go out there, talk to them, get to know them and set up dates with them.
 
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Alen-Delon

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hey i think the friendship with her would be a disaster, you should keep your cool and just be cold towards her, just basic hi, bye, how are you bull****. just chat up other hotties that will be in your class. and play along , see how she responds and then you can make wise decisions from there... thats just my opinion on it.
 
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