“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gonna Reach out to Her Friend

jaymbrs

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A friend of a chick I met on Bumble. The first "date" we went out in a group setting and I was getting some IOIs from her very cute friend. An obstacle I foresee is the fact I banged my date already and I'm sure she already told her friend about it. But on the positive side, there's nothing serious about what her and I have going on. I know there's a high risk here with losing out on both but I think it's worth taking a shot. Any pointers?
 

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Can be tricky! In my younger day I sort of "used" a girl to get to her lot better looking friend...a bit ****ty but thats youth and inexperience for ya! I ended up dating the prettier one for a bit but her friend never forgave me,and,it was fair enough.It ended up affecting their friendship in the end which wasnt my intention but I didnt think it thru...Its a minefield when jealousy etc kicks in so be prepared for it all to go south,but,go for it!
 

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Can be tricky! In my younger day I sort of "used" a girl to get to her lot better looking friend...a bit ****ty but thats youth and inexperience for ya! I ended up dating the prettier one for a bit but her friend never forgave me,and,it was fair enough.It ended up affecting their friendship in the end which wasnt my intention but I didnt think it thru...Its a minefield when jealousy etc kicks in so be prepared for it all to go south,but,go for it!
Well at least I didn't go into this with the intention of getting the friend lol but it is kinda ****ty that I slept with her already and now want the friend. And the current one is texting me a lot asking about hanging out again.
 

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If you have the abundance to potentially lose the Bumble girl, go for it. Couple times I dated friends of women before I ended up having relationships with them.

Now I would recommend not doing a group date with Girl #2. Go with the flow and see what happens.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you have the abundance to potentially lose the Bumble girl, go for it. Couple times I dated friends of women before I ended up having relationships with them.

Now I would recommend not doing a group date with Girl #2. Go with the flow and see what happens.
I have a couple on the sidelines. I've started distancing myself from girl #1. Figured if I'm going to do this it needs to be sooner rather than later.
 
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