A friend of a chick I met on Bumble. The first "date" we went out in a group setting and I was getting some IOIs from her very cute friend. An obstacle I foresee is the fact I banged my date already and I'm sure she already told her friend about it. But on the positive side, there's nothing serious about what her and I have going on. I know there's a high risk here with losing out on both but I think it's worth taking a shot. Any pointers?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gonna Reach out to Her Friend
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- Start date
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Bro. If you are willing to risk it, go for the threesome.
Can be tricky! In my younger day I sort of "used" a girl to get to her lot better looking friend...a bit ****ty but thats youth and inexperience for ya! I ended up dating the prettier one for a bit but her friend never forgave me,and,it was fair enough.It ended up affecting their friendship in the end which wasnt my intention but I didnt think it thru...Its a minefield when jealousy etc kicks in so be prepared for it all to go south,but,go for it!
Well at least I didn't go into this with the intention of getting the friend lol but it is kinda ****ty that I slept with her already and now want the friend. And the current one is texting me a lot asking about hanging out again.
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If you have the abundance to potentially lose the Bumble girl, go for it. Couple times I dated friends of women before I ended up having relationships with them.
Now I would recommend not doing a group date with Girl #2. Go with the flow and see what happens.
Now I would recommend not doing a group date with Girl #2. Go with the flow and see what happens.
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I have a couple on the sidelines. I've started distancing myself from girl #1. Figured if I'm going to do this it needs to be sooner rather than later.