"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Golf is the most frustrating game....

speed dawg

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Took it up about 3 years ago, finally got a lesson this year. All that did was show me how good I COULD be at times. Rarely do I hit the same from day to day. Rarely do I have the same problems day in day out. It pisses me off to no fvcking end. I guess you just have to hit balls every friggin' day to get good at it.

After three years and LEGITIMATE scoring, I'm still a 20 handicap. Anger surely does not help when you're on the course. I just don't see why it's so hard to hit a stationary little ball.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Atom Smasher

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Forget about obtaining consistency that you will be happy with. Just when you seem to have it down, something unidentifiable changes in your swing and you're back to trying to figure out a way to correct for it. I think that very few people obtain consistency, or at least it takes lots of years.

I just played a round tonight and I was absolutely terriible, yet last week I had my best round ever. I seem to have a way to detach my emotions from the game so when I have a bad round I'm unaffected. There's always that one great shot that brings us back for more, eh?
 

speed dawg

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Atom Smasher said:
I seem to have a way to detach my emotions from the game so when I have a bad round I'm unaffected.
Teach me.

Atom Smasher said:
There's always that one great shot that brings us back for more, eh?
That's the damnable misery of it.
 

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I live in a golf community so I go and hit balls pretty regularly. I've gotten better, but the people I play with are all the higher-ups in my company who've been playing for decades and just bury me. I've learned that when I go out and play solo I tend to play better and learn more because the pressure to perform is off, but when I'm playing with others I tend to choke more. Play solo for a while and see if that helps.
 

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^^ I too have found that when I play solo I play a lot better. Also when I get into a regular routine of playing I improve.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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