"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Going to the club tonight - please critique my game

gottiwill

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Friday night teen night at my local club. a good 100-200 people show so it's a pretty cool place.
I went last week but I didn't pull any numbers, but I didn't ask either.

So this weeks strategy is this:
me: find a good 2-3 set
approach
depending on angle, touch targets arm and when she looks at me say
Me: Do you want to dance?
Her: Yea sure
dance...
I get close to her ear
Me: so are you single?
Her: Yea y?
Me: Well give me your number & we'll chill sometime
1) her: sorry I don't give my number out to people I don't know.
Me: okay *smile
2) her: sure
Me: hands her my phone
3) looks at me like im crazy
Me: I look back at her looking crazy
4) uhhmm, i dont know you
Me: I know, but I'm trying to change that *grin

Im going to try this out and see how it goes.
I know theres absolutely no rapport being built, but were in a loud club.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SickAgain

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That approach is too logical. Try to be the wild and crazy guy at the club that does what he wants, when he wants. Never linger around, always be moving. Dress sharp. ANd if you 're really good looking, you shouldn't even need any tricks. Just confidence.

For example.
1)bump into a girl on purpose and start a fake argument.
2)make fun of the way a girl is dancing.
3)ask for a dance in a unique way "you! dance with me!"
 

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That approach is too logical. Try to be the wild and crazy guy at the club that does what he wants, when he wants. Never linger around, always be moving. Dress sharp. ANd if you 're really good looking, you shouldn't even need any tricks. Just confidence.
I was the wild and crazy guy one night and I also was the wild and crazy guy that the bouncers escourted out promptly that night. LOL

Don't go into the situation over analyzing and thinking to much.
Throw the pre-determined checklist out and don't scripte lines.
Stay away from the wall, that area should be considered the "I don't think I'm getting any pvssy so I'm standing by the wall zone."
Have fun and interact with women regardless of looks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ur coming off way too strong. girls instinctively have shields up b/c there are so many creepy guys out there. u need to stand apart from those needy guys. i cant tell u how thats another topic, start reading the bible.
 

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SickAgain said:
That approach is too logical. Try to be the wild and crazy guy at the club that does what he wants, when he wants. Never linger around, always be moving. Dress sharp. ANd if you 're really good looking, you shouldn't even need any tricks. Just confidence.

For example.
1)bump into a girl on purpose and start a fake argument.
2)make fun of the way a girl is dancing.
3)ask for a dance in a unique way "you! dance with me!"

dont do that
 

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welllllll
VERY intersteding night.

So i got down to my community pool to relax before the big night :D
just me, chillin, on the phone with some other girls...
then this blonde, HB8 comes in. Shes talkin to someone on the phone, but keeps eyein me.

finally I get off the phone, and heres how it goes!

it's getting late soo
Me: hey look theres a duck in the pool.
Her: yea there were two of them last night
Me: well I was down here last night, I didnt see you
Her: I cam early
Me: ohh I see
blablabla
shes from New Hampshire.
Just visiting.
its her last day
shes qualifying herself like CRAZY!
She keeps hinting to me, but I play it off. hard to get.

She has to run to her house for something, she ask me to say.
she comes back, I get out of the pool cause it's cold. She finally talks me back in, and kisses me.

She tells me she has to be home at 9:30 cause shes leaving at 10 this morning.

So I knew I had to move quickly.
I bring her back to my house, were sitting on the couch;

Her: man I havent had fun since I been here.
Me: oh yea..
Her: why dont you show me a good time, lol
Me: o..well I have monopoly around here somewhere
Her: laughs,
Me: i kiss her

about 3 minutes in, I'm rubbing her, then she says, I WANT TO **** YOU!.
really firmly.

So I grab a condom, and lead her into the den.
She's hurrying, moving quickly cause she has to be home soon.
I **** her. 3 different positions in 10 minutes. She cums, I dont. Im still shocked I landed a HB8 with NO effort, lol.

and to add to my ego shes telling me how big, and how ****ing hott I am.
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo
FF and I'm at the club. I'm smilin like crazy. Im so CHILL. I just dont care.
Every girl in the clubs talking about me. I didnt even do my hair.
I walk up to the hottest set in there,
Tell a girl with a dress/skirt that she looks gorgeous in that, and it's classy.
I sit on the couch with my boy and just chill. always smiling. I notice her all night, she wont dance with NOBODY.
I finally decide shes mine, I go dance with her, she sucks, lol, then I just hand her my phone, she QUICKLY puts it in..

I forget to save it tho, lol. o well.
We then bounced out, and called it a night.

I swear to god, I need to get laid every time right before I go to the club. I was a ****ing GOD in there.
 

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gottiwill said:
Friday night teen night at my local club. a good 100-200 people show so it's a pretty cool place.
I went last week but I didn't pull any numbers, but I didn't ask either.

So this weeks strategy is this:
me: find a good 2-3 set
approach
depending on angle, touch targets arm and when she looks at me say
Me: Do you want to dance?
Her: Yea sure
dance...
I get close to her ear
Me: so are you single?
Her: Yea y?
Me: Well give me your number & we'll chill sometime
1) her: sorry I don't give my number out to people I don't know.
Me: okay *smile
2) her: sure
Me: hands her my phone
3) looks at me like im crazy
Me: I look back at her looking crazy
4) uhhmm, i dont know you
Me: I know, but I'm trying to change that *grin

Im going to try this out and see how it goes.
I know theres absolutely no rapport being built, but were in a loud club.
Why do you have to plan everything?....why can't you go out, relax and say what comes to your mind?...planning is a waste of time cause nobody can ever plan things to go the way they want all the time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wodan

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Planning is a good way of starting out i think, gives you a structure to run off instead of nothing, which makes you more confident and so on.
 
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