"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Going to the club tonight - please critique my game

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Friday night teen night at my local club. a good 100-200 people show so it's a pretty cool place.
I went last week but I didn't pull any numbers, but I didn't ask either.

So this weeks strategy is this:
me: find a good 2-3 set
approach
depending on angle, touch targets arm and when she looks at me say
Me: Do you want to dance?
Her: Yea sure
dance...
I get close to her ear
Me: so are you single?
Her: Yea y?
Me: Well give me your number & we'll chill sometime
1) her: sorry I don't give my number out to people I don't know.
Me: okay *smile
2) her: sure
Me: hands her my phone
3) looks at me like im crazy
Me: I look back at her looking crazy
4) uhhmm, i dont know you
Me: I know, but I'm trying to change that *grin

Im going to try this out and see how it goes.
I know theres absolutely no rapport being built, but were in a loud club.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SickAgain

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That approach is too logical. Try to be the wild and crazy guy at the club that does what he wants, when he wants. Never linger around, always be moving. Dress sharp. ANd if you 're really good looking, you shouldn't even need any tricks. Just confidence.

For example.
1)bump into a girl on purpose and start a fake argument.
2)make fun of the way a girl is dancing.
3)ask for a dance in a unique way "you! dance with me!"
 

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That approach is too logical. Try to be the wild and crazy guy at the club that does what he wants, when he wants. Never linger around, always be moving. Dress sharp. ANd if you 're really good looking, you shouldn't even need any tricks. Just confidence.
I was the wild and crazy guy one night and I also was the wild and crazy guy that the bouncers escourted out promptly that night. LOL

Don't go into the situation over analyzing and thinking to much.
Throw the pre-determined checklist out and don't scripte lines.
Stay away from the wall, that area should be considered the "I don't think I'm getting any pvssy so I'm standing by the wall zone."
Have fun and interact with women regardless of looks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ur coming off way too strong. girls instinctively have shields up b/c there are so many creepy guys out there. u need to stand apart from those needy guys. i cant tell u how thats another topic, start reading the bible.
 

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SickAgain said:
That approach is too logical. Try to be the wild and crazy guy at the club that does what he wants, when he wants. Never linger around, always be moving. Dress sharp. ANd if you 're really good looking, you shouldn't even need any tricks. Just confidence.

For example.
1)bump into a girl on purpose and start a fake argument.
2)make fun of the way a girl is dancing.
3)ask for a dance in a unique way "you! dance with me!"

dont do that
 

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welllllll
VERY intersteding night.

So i got down to my community pool to relax before the big night :D
just me, chillin, on the phone with some other girls...
then this blonde, HB8 comes in. Shes talkin to someone on the phone, but keeps eyein me.

finally I get off the phone, and heres how it goes!

it's getting late soo
Me: hey look theres a duck in the pool.
Her: yea there were two of them last night
Me: well I was down here last night, I didnt see you
Her: I cam early
Me: ohh I see
blablabla
shes from New Hampshire.
Just visiting.
its her last day
shes qualifying herself like CRAZY!
She keeps hinting to me, but I play it off. hard to get.

She has to run to her house for something, she ask me to say.
she comes back, I get out of the pool cause it's cold. She finally talks me back in, and kisses me.

She tells me she has to be home at 9:30 cause shes leaving at 10 this morning.

So I knew I had to move quickly.
I bring her back to my house, were sitting on the couch;

Her: man I havent had fun since I been here.
Me: oh yea..
Her: why dont you show me a good time, lol
Me: o..well I have monopoly around here somewhere
Her: laughs,
Me: i kiss her

about 3 minutes in, I'm rubbing her, then she says, I WANT TO **** YOU!.
really firmly.

So I grab a condom, and lead her into the den.
She's hurrying, moving quickly cause she has to be home soon.
I **** her. 3 different positions in 10 minutes. She cums, I dont. Im still shocked I landed a HB8 with NO effort, lol.

and to add to my ego shes telling me how big, and how ****ing hott I am.
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo
FF and I'm at the club. I'm smilin like crazy. Im so CHILL. I just dont care.
Every girl in the clubs talking about me. I didnt even do my hair.
I walk up to the hottest set in there,
Tell a girl with a dress/skirt that she looks gorgeous in that, and it's classy.
I sit on the couch with my boy and just chill. always smiling. I notice her all night, she wont dance with NOBODY.
I finally decide shes mine, I go dance with her, she sucks, lol, then I just hand her my phone, she QUICKLY puts it in..

I forget to save it tho, lol. o well.
We then bounced out, and called it a night.

I swear to god, I need to get laid every time right before I go to the club. I was a ****ing GOD in there.
 

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gottiwill said:
Friday night teen night at my local club. a good 100-200 people show so it's a pretty cool place.
I went last week but I didn't pull any numbers, but I didn't ask either.

So this weeks strategy is this:
me: find a good 2-3 set
approach
depending on angle, touch targets arm and when she looks at me say
Me: Do you want to dance?
Her: Yea sure
dance...
I get close to her ear
Me: so are you single?
Her: Yea y?
Me: Well give me your number & we'll chill sometime
1) her: sorry I don't give my number out to people I don't know.
Me: okay *smile
2) her: sure
Me: hands her my phone
3) looks at me like im crazy
Me: I look back at her looking crazy
4) uhhmm, i dont know you
Me: I know, but I'm trying to change that *grin

Im going to try this out and see how it goes.
I know theres absolutely no rapport being built, but were in a loud club.
Why do you have to plan everything?....why can't you go out, relax and say what comes to your mind?...planning is a waste of time cause nobody can ever plan things to go the way they want all the time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Planning is a good way of starting out i think, gives you a structure to run off instead of nothing, which makes you more confident and so on.
 
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