"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Going to the bar your ex works at?

Keep going?

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Stallionstud

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thoughts on this? I just did this Thursday, showed up got my food to go had 2 beers went to a different bar THEN came back with four girls I had just met (but it didn’t go anywhere with them)

Long story short the manager basically told me he “could” ask me to leave if the ex is ever there. I explained my side of things and that not only am I not here to see her but I’ve never come in to see her. Ever. However she apparently is scared of me,( because of her parents, villanizing me, nothing I actually did) the breakups only two weeks old

This bar is the closest and coolest place I don’t feel like giving it up but should I?

I’m 31 the waitress is 21 (I didn’t meet her there)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stallionstud

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billtx49 said:
Don’t mess with people at work…
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So self implement a ban on myself?
Even though I never did anything wrong and I’m not there to mess with her.

Doesn’t really strike me as my responsibility.

Not getting a DUI now that’s more of my responsibility and main reason for going there since it’s closest
 
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I would more then likely not eat or drink in a place then a ex can have access to my food, even less bring people to it
 
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It's what women refer to as a 'creep.'

She would be correct. Get a life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Damn, alright I accept it. that’s a loss I didn’t want to take. 3/3 say stay away.

Reason I suggested the girls go there is because no where else serves good food at that hour and they didn’t like my first two suggestions. It’s a small town man, this isn’t a city where u can avoid people.

Kinda tired of being treated like a creep simply because I got ghosted.
 
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Stay out of there. Nothing positive can happen for you. Just accept it. Find other bars.
 
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even small or dead night life like my town is there is places and places, maybe to time to do some exploring, also check close towns to your, if there anything good, here where I life even though is kinda dead te night life, there is the smaller and closer towns to mine who do ahve something better, so trying to take a look around, go out with friends who know these places or ask about new palces with then can really help a lot
 
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