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Going to the bar your ex works at?

Keep going?

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Stallionstud

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thoughts on this? I just did this Thursday, showed up got my food to go had 2 beers went to a different bar THEN came back with four girls I had just met (but it didn’t go anywhere with them)

Long story short the manager basically told me he “could” ask me to leave if the ex is ever there. I explained my side of things and that not only am I not here to see her but I’ve never come in to see her. Ever. However she apparently is scared of me,( because of her parents, villanizing me, nothing I actually did) the breakups only two weeks old

This bar is the closest and coolest place I don’t feel like giving it up but should I?

I’m 31 the waitress is 21 (I didn’t meet her there)
 

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billtx49 said:
Don’t mess with people at work…
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So self implement a ban on myself?
Even though I never did anything wrong and I’m not there to mess with her.

Doesn’t really strike me as my responsibility.

Not getting a DUI now that’s more of my responsibility and main reason for going there since it’s closest
 
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I would more then likely not eat or drink in a place then a ex can have access to my food, even less bring people to it
 
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It's what women refer to as a 'creep.'

She would be correct. Get a life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Damn, alright I accept it. that’s a loss I didn’t want to take. 3/3 say stay away.

Reason I suggested the girls go there is because no where else serves good food at that hour and they didn’t like my first two suggestions. It’s a small town man, this isn’t a city where u can avoid people.

Kinda tired of being treated like a creep simply because I got ghosted.
 
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Stay out of there. Nothing positive can happen for you. Just accept it. Find other bars.
 
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even small or dead night life like my town is there is places and places, maybe to time to do some exploring, also check close towns to your, if there anything good, here where I life even though is kinda dead te night life, there is the smaller and closer towns to mine who do ahve something better, so trying to take a look around, go out with friends who know these places or ask about new palces with then can really help a lot
 
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