"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Going to Spain for a winer study abroad program, any advice?

-=Ice-T=-

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Hey all,

I will be leaving for Spain on the 2nd of Jan and staying there until the 23rd. I will be staying in Seville (home of the original Don Juan DeMarco :) ) It is for this study broad program through my school. Going with me on the trip will be like 12 other girls and 3 other guys. I know a couple of the girls that are going pretty well.

Do you guys have any advice for me while I'm there, in terms of gaming or otherwise. I'll be joining a gym there and lifting regularly wihle I'm there. Also, I have a couple semesters worth of Spanish. I can speak and understand it but I am nowhere near fluent. I'm just looking for advice for going abroad in general.

Thanks all
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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-=Ice-T=- said:
Hey all,

I will be leaving for Spain on the 2nd of Jan and staying there until the 23rd. I will be staying in Seville (home of the original Don Juan DeMarco :) ) It is for this study broad program through my school. Going with me on the trip will be like 12 other girls and 3 other guys. I know a couple of the girls that are going pretty well.

Do you guys have any advice for me while I'm there, in terms of gaming or otherwise. I'll be joining a gym there and lifting regularly wihle I'm there. Also, I have a couple semesters worth of Spanish. I can speak and understand it but I am nowhere near fluent. I'm just looking for advice for going abroad in general.

Thanks all
spain is a terrible place to go if you just want girls. nice place in general, just not where you go for high caliber girls. spanish guys are in much more demand than the girls. there is a reason why there are so many low cost flights from spain to the baltic states. :yes:

lifting? dude, spanish guys don't lift. most foreign girls are different. they are not as slutty as american/british girls. mmm, they have more class and style. remember, you won't find a&f or hollister there for a reason. that kind of marketing doesn't work. so leave the big chest at home.

seville has some great soccer if you are into it.
 

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I was in Seville a few years ago. They really f-ing hate Americans. Or, more specifically, they hate George Bush. and the dollar is worth $hit right now so you won't be very well off.

My advice: get some anti-bush or anti-war stuff to wear and be able to speak Spanish. as an American, you will probably stand out. I certainly did, though my game was alot weaker back then. I'd be curious to know how you did.
 

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I'm studying abroad for the semester in Mexico actually leaving tomorrow. The best advice i could give you would be to enjoy yourself, be open to meeting new people, and be open to trying new things.
 
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