Going to see my woman this weekend

[ARK]

UPDATE:
Well guys I'm set to go see my woman this weekend. This saturday is the first time she hasn't had to work and its her birthday. Pretty cool that she wants to spend it with me. Past history we have gone out 8 times now including, dinner, movies (theater and renting), a dinner theater, trip to the zoo (great place for Kino) and making dinner for her. She is 23 and I'm 31.

We've been dating now for two and a half months. She now lives an hour away and its actually been three weeks since I've seen her last. (sucks) That is primarily due to her schedule as she is a medical student who just started her hospital rotations. Since she has been really busy (LONG HOURS) I have kept a low profile and contacted her occasionally. Every time I have contacted her she has responded by an email or a phone call. (good sign)

She told me on the phone that I could drive up early Sat. morning or come and stay the night Fri. night that way I won't have to drive early Sat. morning. (******** translation - I want you to come up Fri. eve.) She is pretty tired and expressed wanting to stay home for a quiet evening Fri. so we're planning to make dinner together. Her female roommates will be out of town too. As far as birthday plans go, all I really have is a dinner reservation for Sat. eve. I'm sure I will think of something for Saturday day.

I bought a birthday card that more or less says, "Happy Birthday to a special person." Definitely didnt want to get a card that read anything about friends. heh. Got her a nice gift that I think she will like. Nothing big but shows I put some thought into it. I may get a small bouquet of flowers and/or a happy birthday balloon as well. I'm sure some of you will say nay to the flowers.

The TALK may come up this weekend about being exclusive. She tends to ask the fabled question, "What are you thinking?" a lot. She is giving me all the good signs at this point so we will see what happens. We have seemed to click so far.

Any thoughts as far as an action date for Saturday during the day and should I get a few flowers and/or a happy birthday balloon?

 

[themanwithnoname]

Yeah, do whatever you want, I just want to know that you banged her within these 2 1/2 months.

 

[ARK]

Thats a big negative good buddy. Lots of making out and thats been it. Supposedly she is a V and wants to wait until she is married. We will see what happens.

 

[frivolousz21]

speed up the process!

 

[ARK]

Well, she called me tonight at 9:30. SWEET SHE CALLED ME AGAIN!! Called me Sunday and now Wednesday! (funny thing is I had just emailed her) She had just gotten out of her rotation at the hospital. Bad thing is I was getting ready to leave to go see War of the Worlds. I didn't want to cut her off so we talked for twenty minutes until she got home.

I felt bad that I had to go, but I finally said "Lindsay, Im going to have to go. Im supposed to go see a movie tonight with Brian and some friends so I need to leave." Her response was, "Oh ok. Well I found my roommate now so I can talk to her." I added, "I'm sorry I have to let you go because I would like to talk to you." She said, "Oh, that's fine go ahead and go and have fun tonight."

Sucks but oh well what can you do. Good thing is she called. Anyway, I think I will email her now that I'm back. Something like sorry for not getting to finish talking. Went to see War of the Worlds, etc. Hmm should I email or just call her tomorrow evening? Thing is if I call we may talk about things we can talk about on Friday evening. Thoughts?

 

[ARK]

Just got back and we had a great weekend.

I drove up Friday afternoon and we made dinner. Afterwards we made out on the couch. My hand adventured the great range known as her Grand Teetons. WOWZA! Sat. we got up and basically didnt do a thing all day except watch a movie and go to dinner. Had an interesting conversation. That night a classmate of hers came over and talked to my date, her roommate and I. Went ahead and stayed Sat. night and we made out again on the couch and I played with her boobs again. It was about 12:30 am now and we were heading to bed. As we passed in the hallway and said goodnight we made out again for another half hour up against the door casing of the bathroom which was right outside her roommates door. I was sporting a chubby and she could tell. We both had our pjs on so there isnt much restricting me from bulging out. I was practically poking her right at the same level as her pu**y. We are standing there and she starts rubbing herself against me and moaning. We banged our hips together and grinded. She would stand on her tip toes so I would rub up against her. It was fvcking great! :-O

All this from a girl who told me not to expect much from her on a physcial level. I guess that went out the window quickly! I was pretty surprised but I knew I needed to bring sex into our relationship a little more.
:woo:

 

[ARK]

Oh yeah, she asked me "What are you thinking?" again. I simply said You. She smiled and said good and never asked me again. A conversation came up between her roommate, my date and I about a past bf of hers. They were talking about how several of her friends didnt like her bf. Her roommate looked at me smiled and said, "Don't worry, I like you a lot ARK." So her roommate, which is one of her close friends, thinks good things of me.

Oh since it was her birthday I got her a birthday cake, card and a gift. She liked it all!

 

[ARK]

I forgot to mention, she said from now on, whenever we go out to eat you have to tell me something about you. Following the advice on this site I've been pretty tight lipped about myself. Just asking her things about her career and schooling since she is a medical student. I know a lot about her family now as well. For me though, I often stumble when she asks me to tell her about me. Often Im kinda dumbfounded. I did well though because I told her about my friends and how long Ive known them and how we all met. Basically we worked together. I think that pacified her for the time being. We talked about a few other aspects of my life as well.

I dont know though I have a hard time of telling someone about myself. Anyone else have this problem or have any thoughts on how I can express myself more.. yet not tell her everything so I can still be mysterious?

 

[Porky]

Originally posted by ARK
All this from a girl who told me not to expect much from her on a physcial level. I guess that went out the window quickly!

haha...I find your upbeatness refreshing. good lord, 31 years old and you're excited about feeling a girl up at 2 1/2 months.

good for you mate.

 

[ARK]

I think my excitedness is coming from her huge cans. Definitely the biggest I've ever played with.

All this from a girl who told me not to expect much from her on a physcial level.

Oh yeah, I guess its true.. actions do speak louder than words. She was practically rubbing her pu**y on my chubby and then she started humping me.:cheer:

 

[ARK]

Where the heck is SuperGigaloDJ, BrotherAP and Lost in Translation?? Wonder what they think now after reading this. :woo:

 

[Caldus]

So are you going to bang her or what?

 

[ARK]

Yeah, I always saw her as wanting to take it slow, but I can definitely see that happening.

Truthfully, Im beginning to think she is not a virgin after all. She seemed to know what she was doing when she was up against that wall.

 

[ARK]

Well after that awesome weekend my girl called me Tuesday night and last night. Her interest level seems to have gone up quite a bit. She was beginning to call me more than I called her before the weekend and now she is calling me a lot more.

Tuesday she called to tell me how the rest of her weekend was. She told me about a classmate of hers that also fell asleep when her bf came to see her. In her little way she probably felt bad for falling asleep when I was with her and was reconfirming to me that she was sorry. (she is a medical student) I felt as if she called for the sole purpose of hearing my voice. I asked her about doing something the weekend of the 16th and the 23rd and even though she didnt know her schedule she immediately said yes to both!

Last night she called again and we talked about our day at work, etc. I am beginning to tell that she has feelings for me. I mean she called me twice in a row! Both times we talk about various things and she ends up laying in bed talking to me and eventually going to sleep right after we hang up.

Guys, I think this site has really helped me with this relationship. I couldn't be more thankful to everyones input I have gotten. This relationship can only more forward from here. Thank you!:woo:

 

[Heyjose25points]

Good work. No joke. glad this site worked out for you.

 

[themanwithnoname]

okay, but have you banged her? it's 3 months buddy, have you at least get sucked off or vice versa.