"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Going to purge social media for a month

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I deleted tinder like a week ago and I noticed I started feeling better. This morning, I decided to delete snapchat because I was hooked on the app and it also made me feel like ass. After a day without it, I definitely feel better. I ran today and instead of thinking about revenge or how I'm going to be some Mr. Hotshot on snapchat, I thought about positive things. In addition, my back muscles are starting to feel better. I'm definitely never going to redownload snapchat ever again. For Facebook, I deactivated my account, but decided to just delete the bums from my friends list. I will most likely end up deactiviting my account though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good.. now do us a favor and get rid of that pic of Hilary... replace it with something more appealing like a river rat or a baboon.

Your credibility will go up 9000!
 

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Good.. now do us a favor and get rid of that pic of Hilary... replace it with something more appealing like a river rat or a baboon.

Your credibility will go up 9000!
I've never been a huge fan of Hillary, but at least I know what she is. Also, if you hate it then I know you are part of that manosphere bull ****
 

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You never been a fan of Hilary but you have her pic as your profile? ....

Manosphere bull***?

What are you a femnazi?

Your fakeness rating is over 9000!
 

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Yah if u rep a pic of hilary, I feel bad for u son
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm more Mgtow than anything. The manosphere is pretty much racism and the male version of feminism mixed in a pot.
 

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Also, if you hate it then I know you are part of that manosphere bull ****
SoSuave is considered part of the manosphere. MGTOW grew from the manosphere and most of the MGTOW stuff is considered part of the manosphere as well. I am not sure what your impression of the manosphere is but I do not think you are properly classifying the "manosphere".

But yeah, social media has its pluses and minuses. The plus is that it can help expand your social circles at least to some degree, the minus is of course that social media is often filled with fakes and all the digital drama can be a bit of a drag. It sounds more like you became hooked on it and were just wasting time in it, valuable time that should be focused not on your digital life but on your real life... I know a lot of people nowadays that live more and care more about their digital life than they do about their real life. One's digital life should not be used as a replacement for your real life.
 

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SoSuave is considered part of the manosphere. MGTOW grew from the manosphere and most of the MGTOW stuff is considered part of the manosphere as well. I am not sure what your impression of the manosphere is but I do not think you are properly classifying the "manosphere".

But yeah, social media has its pluses and minuses. The plus is that it can help expand your social circles at least to some degree, the minus is of course that social media is often filled with fakes and all the digital drama can be a bit of a drag. It sounds more like you became hooked on it and were just wasting time in it, valuable time that should be focused not on your digital life but on your real life... I know a lot of people nowadays that live more and care more about their digital life than they do about their real life. One's digital life should not be used as a replacement for your real life.
I hate whatever rok is and I wasn't too bad on Facebook but snapchat was the one that ate my time and conscience. Ever since I deleted that app, I've noticed a quite big contrast on my thoughts and behavior.
 

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I'm more Mgtow than anything. The manosphere is pretty much racism and the male version of feminism mixed in a pot.
saying you are a Mgtow because you can't pull woman is the same as saying i don't like to drive, when you can't pay for a car, you could at least try to be funny, or the very least consistent? you are not even funny, just sad....
 

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saying you are a Mgtow because you can't pull woman is the same as saying i don't like to drive, when you can't pay for a car, you could at least try to be funny, or the very least consistent? you are not even funny, just sad....
Just claiming MGTOW itself is pretty sad. I understand being strong while alone and focusing on yourself, I am all for that.

But most of MGTOW is just full of hate.. It's like all the virgins that never got laid or hurt really badly from a breakup or a divorce just give up and take all their toys and go home...

Then they blame women for everything... pretty sad actually.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just claiming MGTOW itself is pretty sad. I understand being strong while alone and focusing on yourself, I am all for that.

But most of MGTOW is just full of hate.. It's like all the virgins that never got laid or hurt really badly from a breakup or a divorce just give up and take all their toys and go home...

Then they blame women for everything... pretty sad actually.
that is what some say not what really means, Mgtow is more a way to fix your life and not let anything else get in the way, also a way to get yourself on the right mind and even do things, when another person close would just hold you back, hell even if you are jaded enough you can do that and stop entretaining any kind of woman or relationship with then.

but on his case? meh he is just a clown, a sad clown
 

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Aww I insulted your worthless manosphere bullshvt and y'all are going to resort to came calling. I could get laid right now if I wanted to, but I actually would rather have valuable ***** than some hoe from a bar or pof.
 

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Regardless, deleting snapchat was an excellent decision made on my part. I will be seeing some friends in Minnesota, so I redownloaded Tinder for that. Haven't even opened it yet, but might have some luck up there lol.
 
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