"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
going to prom with a girl way out of my league.
- Thread starter teencraft
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
BRUTAL!!! :crackup:
seriously tho that sucks
I know :-/...luckily i had my mom's car so i didn't have to run all over the mall with her, I just had to drop her off then I came back and looked but to no avail. :-/ I hope i find it, my backpack is locked in the trunk of my car and I don't have a spare.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
:crackup: :crackup:
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
god must hate u.
jk man. good luck bro, have a good ****in time. and from a buncha filed reports on ehre of prom dates: if she becomes a *****, ditch her. don't let ****ty-vibes ruin the prom-night of your life.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
**** man, you need a major mindset change, but it is possible just stick in there.
At this stage you should still be deciding wether or not you even want to be a couple with her. Imagine what your giving up! Your freedom, your time, multiple girls at once (or if not this you will be giving up your morals), all in one decision. Are you sure you want to do this? If your still saying yes, then you havent thought it through, you have to really know this girl before you can 'be a couple'. As a general rule, if your not getting any, dont go out with her.
Rather then get 'giddy' you should have responded with something like "comeon now, i need a more then a shopping partner before you can start referring to us as a "couple" "
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
:moon:
Treat a 9 like a 6. If you do, you become a 9 in her eyes. If you don't, you become a 6.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
finally, some useful advice....
treat her this way, but don't lower your standards and her with them. just treat her like shes a 6 and you dont really care if she likes you, cause your after bigger and better things
i also liked how of all the numbers possible, you chose to use 6 and 9. 69? coinsidence? i think not
