"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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going to prom with a girl way out of my league.

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Okay, me and said girl went shopping for her dress...damn she looked AMAZING and I can't wait til saturday. I am so excited about it.

Bad news though, I lost my keys when I was shopping with her and now I'm screwed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by teencraft
I lost my keys when I was shopping with her and now I'm screwed.
BRUTAL!!! :crackup:











seriously tho that sucks
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
BRUTAL!!! :crackup:

seriously tho that sucks
I know :-/...luckily i had my mom's car so i didn't have to run all over the mall with her, I just had to drop her off then I came back and looked but to no avail. :-/ I hope i find it, my backpack is locked in the trunk of my car and I don't have a spare.
 

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god must hate u.
jk man. good luck bro, have a good ****in time. and from a buncha filed reports on ehre of prom dates: if she becomes a *****, ditch her. don't let ****ty-vibes ruin the prom-night of your life.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Re: ...

Originally posted by Patrick124
god must hate u.
jk man. good luck bro, have a good ****in time. and from a buncha filed reports on ehre of prom dates: if she becomes a *****, ditch her. don't let ****ty-vibes ruin the prom-night of your life.
I'll make sure to type up how things when on sunday april 17th.
 

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Aha! In your eye! i found my keys. Thank you jesus.






They were in my back pocket...i spent hours looking for them today and I couldn't go to the gym...bastard keys!
 

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Alright, I know you're not supposed to over-analyze things, but when we were shopping (and I made sure not to follow her, I looked at different stuff while she was) she mentioned how we "were like a couple." I couldn't help but get giddy when she said this. I hope this is going to materialize into something.
 

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All the **** has been deleted, any more and the thread goes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by teencraft
Alright, I know you're not supposed to over-analyze things, but when we were shopping (and I made sure not to follow her, I looked at different stuff while she was) she mentioned how we "were like a couple." I couldn't help but get giddy when she said this. I hope this is going to materialize into something.
**** man, you need a major mindset change, but it is possible just stick in there.

At this stage you should still be deciding wether or not you even want to be a couple with her. Imagine what your giving up! Your freedom, your time, multiple girls at once (or if not this you will be giving up your morals), all in one decision. Are you sure you want to do this? If your still saying yes, then you havent thought it through, you have to really know this girl before you can 'be a couple'. As a general rule, if your not getting any, dont go out with her.

Rather then get 'giddy' you should have responded with something like "comeon now, i need a more then a shopping partner before you can start referring to us as a "couple" "
 

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Sammo has been giving you the right advice for a while now. You do need to get in the right mindset. Just do what he says.
 

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Originally posted by teencraft
Good god, it just hit me, I am screwed. This girl is easily a high 9/10 and I am going to prom with her. It's in 1 week, saturday apr 16th. We're both seniors...anyone have any tips for me to help me survive the night? (and the week leading up to the prom)
:moon:

Treat a 9 like a 6. If you do, you become a 9 in her eyes. If you don't, you become a 6.
 

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Re: Re: going to prom with a girl way out of my league.

Originally posted by MetalFortress
:moon:

Treat a 9 like a 6. If you do, you become a 9 in her eyes. If you don't, you become a 6.
finally, some useful advice....

treat her this way, but don't lower your standards and her with them. just treat her like shes a 6 and you dont really care if she likes you, cause your after bigger and better things

i also liked how of all the numbers possible, you chose to use 6 and 9. 69? coinsidence? i think not ;)
 
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