"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
going to prom with a girl way out of my league.
- Thread starter teencraft
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
BRUTAL!!! :crackup:
seriously tho that sucks
I know :-/...luckily i had my mom's car so i didn't have to run all over the mall with her, I just had to drop her off then I came back and looked but to no avail. :-/ I hope i find it, my backpack is locked in the trunk of my car and I don't have a spare.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
:crackup: :crackup:
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
god must hate u.
jk man. good luck bro, have a good ****in time. and from a buncha filed reports on ehre of prom dates: if she becomes a *****, ditch her. don't let ****ty-vibes ruin the prom-night of your life.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
**** man, you need a major mindset change, but it is possible just stick in there.
At this stage you should still be deciding wether or not you even want to be a couple with her. Imagine what your giving up! Your freedom, your time, multiple girls at once (or if not this you will be giving up your morals), all in one decision. Are you sure you want to do this? If your still saying yes, then you havent thought it through, you have to really know this girl before you can 'be a couple'. As a general rule, if your not getting any, dont go out with her.
Rather then get 'giddy' you should have responded with something like "comeon now, i need a more then a shopping partner before you can start referring to us as a "couple" "
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
:moon:
Treat a 9 like a 6. If you do, you become a 9 in her eyes. If you don't, you become a 6.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
finally, some useful advice....
treat her this way, but don't lower your standards and her with them. just treat her like shes a 6 and you dont really care if she likes you, cause your after bigger and better things
i also liked how of all the numbers possible, you chose to use 6 and 9. 69? coinsidence? i think not
