"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Going to prom stag?

face2003

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Sup dude's?

Here is my situation, during the last few weeks, I have been quite lazy in my 'quest to find a prom date'. I asked only a few girls and all of them had been taken. Now it's 2 days before the prom and I don't have a date. But, I do have a tux and a singles ticket.

Here is my problem, I'm feeling a little insecure about going to prom alone seeing how it's a couples dance. I do have a group of friends that I could go with but they all have dates so it would still be a little akward (not that it bothers me). Anyway, are any of you guys goin stag?

No matter what happens, I'm still goin to prom, I just wanted to see if I was alone in this or not...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sniper2k

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going solo

I was in the exact situation last year when I was a junior. I went and had an good time. This year I have a date and I'm almost certain the experience will be much better. ;)

If you do go at it alone make the most of it. There will probably be some guys and even gals that go solo aswell, chat them up. And just because a girl has a date doesnt mean she has to dance with him at every song, the slow dances are usually reserved for the the girl and her date, but the rest makes her up for grabs. Just don't go too wild and rub your crotch on her while her date is watching you.:D

Really kid, go and try to grab yourself a date. It'll probably be much more fun, especially since you can have sex with her later. If you don't get one, there's no problem with that, still have a great time anyway with your friends and all the rest of the prom goers. Enjoy.
 

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Well, prom is tomorrow and it's quite hard to find a date with 1 day left...:D. But, now i'm feeling a lot more confident thanks to your post and my cool tux (white zuit suit :D:D). Thanks man.

About the dancing with girls part, that I have no problem with it, during winterball I was the star of the dance, me and a freind started a battle (funny a$$ dancing though). It was cool, everyone in the whole place was watching us :).
 

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Go out and search for a date, but dont act too desperate, more just like it was no big deal to you as you could get anyone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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dont worry, its too late. I dont know why prom is such a big thing for HS kids. I went to the club instead of prom, and had a blast.. but to each his own, some girls dream about this as much as they dream about marriage.:rolleyes:
 

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Yes, everyone makes too big of a deal about prom. Girls like it because they get to look pretty and get lots of attention. Guys like it because they think they'll get laid.

I didn't go to prom... I can think of a lot more fun things to do with the $300 or so it would cost to do. Instead, one of my friends blew $200 on some killer chronic and I helped smoke it all with a couple of my good friends... In one night. No experience I could have had at prom would have topped that.

I wouldn't go to prom stag. I went to one dance by myself, and it was lame. Why waste the money if you're not getting laid at the end? Unless you really like dancing THAT much...
 
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