Hey, my senior prom is coming up in a few weeks, and I'm going with a junior that I asked a couple of days back. We both run track, and thats basically how I got to know her.
I wasn't really paying attention this girl before she started flirting with me at meets and practices etc. She would hug me after my races, wave and smile at me whenever the girls were practicing near the guys and so on.
Anyway I hung out with her for a little bit outside of track and everything seemed to be going well so I asked her to prom and she said yes. Now I'd also made plans to go down the shore/beach after prom with some friends and we were going to rent a few hotel rooms out and spend the weekend. I asked her if she was cool with coming down to the shore with me after prom and she seemed pretty chill about it so I was set.
That was, until yesterday a friend of mine on the track team said that he was talking to her and she had told him she hoped that I knew we were going as just "friends".
Now I'm not sure what the hell I did wrong, but I'm not really interested in going as "friends". I know she''s not a prude as she's gotten with quite a few guys, and I'd rather not waste my time with her if she doesn't want to hook up after prom. I don't know what she expects us to be doing down at the shore either if we're going as friends.
I thought I'd been doing pretty well with her, initiating kino, teasing her and being c+f, but apparently it didn't work.
What do I do now guys? I need help to change her mindset about prom...I want to have sex with her afterwards, not play godamn boardgames and talk. What could I do between now and prom to make her not want to go as just "friends"?
Should I just hope that she gets drunk and we start making out? I don't think I want to depend on that.
I wasn't really paying attention this girl before she started flirting with me at meets and practices etc. She would hug me after my races, wave and smile at me whenever the girls were practicing near the guys and so on.
Anyway I hung out with her for a little bit outside of track and everything seemed to be going well so I asked her to prom and she said yes. Now I'd also made plans to go down the shore/beach after prom with some friends and we were going to rent a few hotel rooms out and spend the weekend. I asked her if she was cool with coming down to the shore with me after prom and she seemed pretty chill about it so I was set.
That was, until yesterday a friend of mine on the track team said that he was talking to her and she had told him she hoped that I knew we were going as just "friends".
Now I'm not sure what the hell I did wrong, but I'm not really interested in going as "friends". I know she''s not a prude as she's gotten with quite a few guys, and I'd rather not waste my time with her if she doesn't want to hook up after prom. I don't know what she expects us to be doing down at the shore either if we're going as friends.
I thought I'd been doing pretty well with her, initiating kino, teasing her and being c+f, but apparently it didn't work.
What do I do now guys? I need help to change her mindset about prom...I want to have sex with her afterwards, not play godamn boardgames and talk. What could I do between now and prom to make her not want to go as just "friends"?
Should I just hope that she gets drunk and we start making out? I don't think I want to depend on that.