"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Going to europe for 3 weeks, anything I can do to keep in shape?

spesmilitis

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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theres probably a cheap gym or something nearby. check out the area when ya get there dude
 

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spes, you're going to Europe I assume for the first time. Chill out, don't stress, forget the f-cking protein powder and your physique, ENJOY YOURSELF. You NEED a life outside your training otherwise you'll never live.

my recommendation: leave the protein powder at home and forget the gym. when you return you'll be stronger, fresher and ready to hit the weights again.

you'll lose NO muscle or strength during your break. when you get back, use slightly lighter weights for the first week and then try to hit PR's again.

have fun! where are you visiting?
 

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Warboss Alex said:
spes, you're going to Europe I assume for the first time. Chill out, don't stress, forget the f-cking protein powder and your physique, ENJOY YOURSELF. You NEED a life outside your training otherwise you'll never live.

my recommendation: leave the protein powder at home and forget the gym. when you return you'll be stronger, fresher and ready to hit the weights again.

you'll lose NO muscle or strength during your break. when you get back, use slightly lighter weights for the first week and then try to hit PR's again.

have fun! where are you visiting?
your right . . .gym if for strength, europe is for fun. Although I might sneak in some protien for situations where im too busy having for a bite.

Im starting off at london, then going to paris, ansterdam and spain.
 

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spesmilitis said:
your right . . .gym if for strength, europe is for fun. Although I might sneak in some protien for situations where im too busy having for a bite.

Im starting off at london, then going to paris, ansterdam and spain.
Here's something I picked up on from numerous trips across the pond... People walk far more in Europe than do their American counterparts (and people wonder why Americans are fat... :rolleyes:). What this means for you is that, especially as a college-aged traveler you will be using your feet to propel you from one place to another almost every minute of every day (when you aren't sleeping, sitting, or eating). If you're like most travelers our age, you'll be eating less and burning more of it off. I didn't step foot into a gym the other month when I spent two weeks in France, Italy, and Greece, but from all of the activity that took place there during daily activities I'd dropped 15-20 lbs. Not only that, but I felt and looked good.

I'd recommend bringing two Nalgene bottles with your daypack and a good supply of power bars. They're easy to eat, cheap, and convenient. Don't waste your money eating at a restaurant every morning, lunch and dinner - instead find a grocery store or street market nearby and take advantage of it to procure healthy food for 10x less than you'd pay if someone else prepared it for you. Sure, eat out a few times in each of the places you're going, but I'm willing to bet that you're not a gastronomical tourist. If you're interested in random travel advice do a search; I've made a few dozen posts regarding the subject and some might give you additional insights.

The most important thing is to have fun... especially in Amsterdam (stay away from the Bulldog Cafe).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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