"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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- Thread starter victor22
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
If I have already been there I don't go with friends at all, I tell the girls I'll be there, and I tell the guys I'll b there. I don't care if any of them show up, they are not there for entertainment, nor to give me social proof. You have to prove social proof.
Once I've been in a place I sarge for new friends, make comments to random people the first time around, next time in there I scout for somebody I talked to the time before, and while I am with them I scout for tables with hot girls, group tables are best where people aren't hangin out together... Than I expand and jump on a few conversations and see if I can take control, steal a seat and BANG new friends.
It doesn't matter if you go alone or with a group, you create your mindset and start picking people out that seem interesting and using their energy if you have none of your own.
Friends can be cold approached as well, you get spankin new stories from every new person you talk to, there are some that won't welcome new experiences, and those are the people you avoid.