"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Going to Bars
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
If I have already been there I don't go with friends at all, I tell the girls I'll be there, and I tell the guys I'll b there. I don't care if any of them show up, they are not there for entertainment, nor to give me social proof. You have to prove social proof.
Once I've been in a place I sarge for new friends, make comments to random people the first time around, next time in there I scout for somebody I talked to the time before, and while I am with them I scout for tables with hot girls, group tables are best where people aren't hangin out together... Than I expand and jump on a few conversations and see if I can take control, steal a seat and BANG new friends.
It doesn't matter if you go alone or with a group, you create your mindset and start picking people out that seem interesting and using their energy if you have none of your own.
Friends can be cold approached as well, you get spankin new stories from every new person you talk to, there are some that won't welcome new experiences, and those are the people you avoid.